I have a Facebook acct but the game won't load all the way and it won't open the page was working fine but have tried all day to open game and it won't...

Change your Facebook browser.
IE has "issues" with some of the games, try Chrome or Firefox instead.

I have Firefox and they still won't load. Getting really over it. This all I do after work. Thanks for any help. I have updated all my programs.

The best browser for FB games is Chrome.
Also make sure you are running the latest version of Flash as it updates regularly..