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Ani_Angelus
Mar 18, 2010, 02:52 AM
I am 20 and he is 29. Is it okay for me to get married at 20 or I should enjoy my life still. I am so happy to find him and so him. Should I get ready for the next stage in my life and get married when I am 20 years old or too young?

Thank You!

ScottGem
Mar 18, 2010, 04:12 AM
I don't think you should get married yet, but not because you are too young. If you were sure he's the one, you wouldn't be asking this question. Since you have, then there is too much doubt in your mind about this relationship to get married yet.

You also left out a very important piece of info; how long have you known him?

LearningAsIGo
Mar 18, 2010, 09:24 AM
I was 19 when I started dating my husband - he was 27.

The best decision we made was to wait to get married. We didn't tie the knot until I was 27 and still to this day, I'm so glad I waited and gave myself a chance to mature and grow as an individual first.

I wish
Mar 19, 2010, 05:08 PM
If you need to ask this question, then you're not ready.

Marriage is a huge commitment and if you have so many lingering doubts, then clear those doubts before you consider marriage.

There's no reason to rush a marriage, a divorce is extremely messy.

JoeCanada76
Mar 19, 2010, 05:35 PM
It is really only up to you and your partner. Everybody can give you all the advice in the world but in the end it has to be you that makes the final decision that is best for you in your life and not based on what everybody is telling you.