View Full Version : My boyfriend only want sex about every two months is this normal
waitress1004
Mar 8, 2010, 06:23 PM
He only uses his hand or sometimes oral but never the inside me is this normal
kp2171
Mar 8, 2010, 11:04 PM
How old are you and how old is he?
Larken85
Mar 8, 2010, 11:16 PM
Maybe he is not comfortable with sex. Talk to him about it.
smoothy
Mar 9, 2010, 07:19 AM
Its normal if you both are 70 years old and you weight 300 lbs.
Maybe he's not ready to be a father and knows that intercourse will get you pregnant.
lea_09
Mar 9, 2010, 07:54 PM
Is it religion that holds him back? Sex in medical terms is basically the hand, oral, and intercourse. Anything stimulating the genitals to achieve orgasm. I believe that he is ultra conservative and he wants to wait... Or maybe sex is not on his mind.
smoothy
Mar 10, 2010, 05:55 AM
Is it religion that holds him back? Sex in medical terms is basically the hand, oral, and intercourse. Anything stimulating the genitals to achieve orgasm. I believe that he is ultra conservative and he wants to wait...Or maybe sex is not on his mind.
He's a guy... if sex ISN'T on his mind... he has some big issues.
lea_09
Mar 10, 2010, 09:37 PM
He's a guy....if sex ISN'T on his mind....he has some big issues.
Hmmm... maybe you should take him and talk to a therapist about this. Having a median always helps.
nbarone
Mar 11, 2010, 02:13 PM
Perhaps the problem is that he can`t hold an erection long enough, and he is shy talking to you and a doctor about it.
smoothy
Mar 12, 2010, 06:51 AM
Hmmm...maybe you should take him and talk to a therapist about this. Having a median always helps.
No harm in being proactive. If he has issues they might be acknowledged and treated. And well, if he stonewalls it, then you can see you need to move on and find someone better.
Lifes too short to waste... you never get that time back.
J_9
Mar 12, 2010, 07:09 AM
This link might provide some insight.
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/boyfriend-havent-had-sex-7-months-450338.html