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monique_mom
Mar 3, 2010, 05:34 PM
Please don't create multiple threads

Keep in mind that we were supposed to be moving in together soon getting married and caring for the child I am pregnant with... anyway...

Okay so now were going on day 4 after a fight and he still hasn't called me. Yesterday people said that I should grow up and at least send him a text so I did I sent...

"Hey babe =) Just making sure your still alive and well. Don't forget your appointments this week. Love you <3"

And he sent nothing

So later that night I sent " Still love me?" And he wrote Yes like 20 minutes later.

That was it Yes... and so I said goodnight... Then after thinking about it I got myself angry and sent...

"You know what, no. I shouldn't have to sit here and wonder when your going to call me. I'm carrying our baby. I should have someone taking care of me, whose loving me no matter what even if I can be a monster sometimes. Not sad, alone, and crying. I never do this to you, all I get is one word in three days. That's bull, Haven't even asked how I'm feeling or what's going on. Even if you are upset you should at least let me know you care for me and my well being."

And he sent " Ill call u tomorrow I'm clearing my mind n I love u n I went to get stuck with ten needles" (He had an acupuncture appointment that day)

And then I said " No thank you. Two can play at your little game you like to play. Hope it was worth it, good ******* night."

And that was it, haha... What do you think?

Sorry it was so long this is just bothering me!

AmericanGirl01
Mar 3, 2010, 05:55 PM
I think this sounds all very childish to me. You're moving in soon, getting married and carrying his child. You got in a fight, went four days without contact and are now texting each other. I'm only 22 years old and this all sounds very immature to me.

What was this fight about? Was it so important that it couldn't have been resolved in a more effective, grown up way?

Yes, he is acting silly. But by your little two people can play this game text you're not acting any better.

How are you two supposed to raise a child let alone get through a marriage if your communication is this bad?

talaniman
Mar 3, 2010, 06:11 PM
Poor guy, pregnant females are very emotional. Ask me how I know?? How pregnant are you??