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Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 08:15 PM
Everyone hate because I'm anoying but I have ADHD ands there's nothing I can do about It. I'm afraud it will get to me and il kill myself
A about me if 15 and I live in a town with a population of 500 and only ten of them are kids so don't say join a club or something because there aren't any

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 08:24 PM
Hey kitkat

ohsohappy
Mar 2, 2010, 08:28 PM
Are you on any medications? Elaborate why you think everyone hates you.

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 08:30 PM
I tried medication but it didn't work and they say I'm random and really anoying

Kitkat22
Mar 2, 2010, 08:33 PM
Hi there! I just wanted to tell you you can find a lot of good answers here. Don't even think about killing yourself! A whole lot of people suffer with ADD and ADHD. It's nothing to be ashamed of. I'll bet there is some things you do a lot better than others!

Do you like music? Do you have a girfriend? What is your favorite thing to do? Look , being annoying is not just a problem for people with ADHD or ADD. I'm annoying a lot! It's okay. Talk to us.

Kitkat22
Mar 2, 2010, 08:36 PM
Are you on any medications? Elaborate why you think everyone hates you.

Sorry ohso didn't mean to jump ahead. I had answered the question but appaerently it didn't go through. Sorry. See I am very annoying.

ohsohappy
Mar 2, 2010, 08:36 PM
I tried medication but it didn't work and they say I'm random and really anoying

One thing that I have to say to you is this: Never say you can't help it, because it shows that you aren't trying to help yourself. It's difficult, but you should try to put in more effort. There are a LOT of people in this world who have ADHD and can live perfectly normal lives.

Here's some things you can do to help
Drink less pop
Cut down on sugar
Chew gum. When you're trying to focus, Gum can help because it helps you with your need to fidget.

But here's the main thing, don't WORRY about what other people think. People your age are real JERKS. I mean BIG JERKS. They're not all very understanding. I was there just 5 years ago, I know. You do and say what you want to say, and if you want to change anything, make sure you're trying to change for YOU not for anyone else.

ohsohappy
Mar 2, 2010, 08:37 PM
Sorry ohso didn't mean to jump ahead. I had answered the question but appaerently it didn't go through. Sorry. See I am very annoying.

Nah you're fine. :)

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 08:38 PM
Thanks for awnsering but I don't have a girl friend because they all say I'm to anoying and I like football but I'm not verry good

ohsohappy
Mar 2, 2010, 08:40 PM
Thanks for awnsering but I don't have a girl friend because they all say I'm to anoying and I like football but I'm not verry good

Then practice! Don't just say "I'm not good, so why bother" Say "I'm not that good yet, but I'll keep trying" Work towards a goal, that can help keep you focused. :)

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 08:49 PM
Yah it's just I'm not athletic I mean I lift weights and I live in Wisconsin where the weathers terible so I can't really practice during the offseason

Kitkat22
Mar 2, 2010, 08:49 PM
Thanks for awnsering but I don't have a girl friend because they all say I'm to anoying and I like football but I'm not verry good


So you're not very good at football, but the thing is you must have tried. So keep on trying new things. Learn to play guitar or paint.

I had never tried skateboarding till last summer! Found out it wasn't for me.. You know what a great past time for me is? I put on my sweats and walk. I take my Ipod and it's my music and me. Try it sweetie.

ohsohappy
Mar 2, 2010, 08:50 PM
So you're not very good at football, but the thing is you must ahve tried. So keep on trying new things. Learn to play guitar or paint.

I had never tried skateboarding till last summer! Found out it wasn't for me.. You know what a great past time for me is? I put on my sweats and walk. i take my Ipod and it's my music and me. Try it sweetie.

I really like the guitar idea. :) Excellent

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 08:52 PM
I guess I'm pretty god at trap shooting and I'm a big deer hunter but that only comes around once a year

Kitkat22
Mar 2, 2010, 08:52 PM
Yah it's just I'm not athletic I mean i lift weights and I live in Wisconsin where the weathers terible so I can't really practice during the offseason

You are trying and that's what counts.

ohsohappy
Mar 2, 2010, 08:56 PM
You are trying and that's what counts.

Yeah! That's the spirit!

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 09:00 PM
Another thing is If you wouldn't mind helping me with this to I like this girl but were really close like brother and sisterbut I'm afraid to tell her how I feel and she says she loves me but I don't think she means it the way I feel

Kitkat22
Mar 2, 2010, 09:01 PM
I guess i'm pretty god at trap shooting and I'm a big deer hunter but that only comes around once a year


Do you like to read? My goodness reading can take you to places and adventures you could never dream of! You are fifteen and you shouldn't let a few mean kids make you feel bad about yourself. If you believe in God ask his guidance. He's always there! The people on this forum are going to give you great advice. Now you need to listen to it okay!

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 09:01 PM
It's kind of off subject but yah

ohsohappy
Mar 2, 2010, 09:03 PM
Another thing is If you wouldn't mind helping me with this to I like this girl but were really close like brother and sisterbut I'm afraid to tell her how i feel and she says she loves me but I dont think she means it the way I feel

Just see where it goes, she sounds interested. :)

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 09:04 PM
Do you like to read? My goodness reading can take you to places and adventures you could never dream of! You are fifteen and you shouldn't let a few mean kids make you feel bad about yourself. If you beleive in God ask his guidance. He's always there! The people on this forum are going to give you great advice. Now you need to listen to it okay!


And yes I do like to read

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 09:08 PM
Yah but she loves me like family and it would be kind of weird for her because we are so close

ohsohappy
Mar 2, 2010, 09:09 PM
Yah but she loves me like family and it would be kinda weird for her because we are so close

Well, you're only 15, feelings can change. I'd say don't ruin what you do have.

On the bright side, clearly not EVERYBODY hates you, because she cares. :)

Kitkat22
Mar 2, 2010, 09:10 PM
[Famous Comedians and Actresses with ADHD
Some of the most prominent comedians and actresses who suffer from ADHD are: Jim Carey, Whoopi Goldberg, Mariette Hartley & Robin Williams. All of these people are artistic, original as well as extremely successful as known by all. They all have the most prominent signs of ADHD, even though in some cases ADHD comes without the hyperactivity as well.

Famous Scientists and Inventors with ADHD
Presented here are a few names that are known by all and they have made great achievements in their respected fields. They have certainly created such things that have changed the world. Thomas Edison, Albert Einstein, Alexander Graham Bell and Benjamin Franklin. One should just think, where would the world be without the contributions of these regarded people?

Famous Composer Mozart Had ADHD
If we go through Mozart’s life, we come to conclude that he displayed several of the characteristics of ADHD. He was a whirlwind of liveliness, restless, eager, precipitate, easily distracted, imaginative, inventive, stimulating, mocking, and a nonconformist. He had all the typical signs of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. He also has given the world the most composite beautiful music ever written.


You are in great company:):):)

ohsohappy
Mar 2, 2010, 09:12 PM
[Famous Comedians and Actresses with ADHD
Some of the most prominent comedians and actresses who suffer from ADHD are: Jim Carey, Whoopi Goldberg, Mariette Hartley & Robin Williams. All of these people are artistic, original as well as extremely successful as known by all. They all have the most prominent signs of ADHD, even though in some cases ADHD comes without the hyperactivity as well.

Famous Scientists and Inventors with ADHD
Presented here are a few names that are known by all and they have made great achievements in their respected fields. They have certainly created such things that have changed the world. Thomas Edison, Albert Einstein, Alexander Graham Bell and Benjamin Franklin. One should just think, where would the world be without the contributions of these regarded people?

Famous Composer Mozart Had ADHD
If we go through Mozart’s life, we come to conclude that he displayed several of the characteristics of ADHD. He was a whirlwind of liveliness, restless, eager, precipitate, easily distracted, imaginative, inventive, stimulating, mocking, and a nonconformist. He had all the typical signs of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. He also has given the world the most composite beautiful music ever written.


QUOTE=;]Look at this list. You're in great company.[/QUOTE]

If I were allowed, I'd greenie your every post.

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 09:12 PM
Well, you're only 15, feelings can change. I'd say don't ruin what you do have.

On the bright side, clearly not EVERYBODY hates you, because she cares. :)

Yah but I think she's the only one

Kitkat22
Mar 2, 2010, 09:13 PM
Look at this list. You're in great company.

If I were allowed, I'd greenie your every post.[/QUOTE]


Now that makes me feel so great! I could cry. Thanks ohso!

ohsohappy
Mar 2, 2010, 09:14 PM
Yah but I think she's the only one

It's about Quality, not quantity. I'd rather have a few really good friends, than be popular and surrounded by strangers who seem to like me because of my image, not because of who I am. Just a thought.

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 09:16 PM
You no you guys are great thanks but I just wish I could be normal you know?

ohsohappy
Mar 2, 2010, 09:23 PM
You no you guys are great thanks but I just wish I could be normal you know?

Define normal. :)

ohsohappy
Mar 2, 2010, 09:23 PM
If I were allowed, I'd greenie your every post.


Now that makes me feel so great! I could cry. Thanks ohso!

Pshaw! My pleasure Ma'am. :D

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 09:25 PM
I just wish I had someone to talk to

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 09:29 PM
This is gobs sound kind of wired but o was wandering if you guys wanted to exchange email adreses and chat some time stop me if I'm out of line

ohsohappy
Mar 2, 2010, 09:29 PM
I just wish I had someone to talk to

Well, we're certainly here. :)

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 09:30 PM
Omg I am a really bad typed

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 09:32 PM
Well it's because I'm on the Internet on my iPod and the butons are really small

ohsohappy
Mar 2, 2010, 09:32 PM
Omg I am a really bad typed

I bet it's because you try to type too fast. :)

Take it slow. And we can definitely chat on here if you need to. Most of us are on every day. We'll take care of you. :)

Kitkat22
Mar 2, 2010, 09:34 PM
You no you guys are great thanks but I just wish I could be normal you know?


You are! But stop putting yourself down! You are you and I just know there are a lot of people who love just the way you are! Now you behave yourself and listen... You are a good kid! You are among a lot of great people who have ADHD. You are someone's child and I know in my heart they love you very much.

When these kids say something mean, ignore them. It takes more courage to walk away. Anyone can stand there and argue, but walking away from that situation can keep you out of trouble.

A few years from now when you have a successful life, it will be nice to go to the driveway at Mickey D's and give them your order. That sounds mean but I don't think it is. I think when kids torment other kids it's great when the underdog is the successful one.

DON'T SAY I CAN'T. DON'T SAY I'M NOT GOOD AT ANYTHING! LOOK AT ALL THE GREAT THINGS ABOUT YOURSELF! Now that's the mom mode kicking in. I'm not your mom, but I think she would tell you the same thing. You be good now.

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 09:35 PM
Asking for you're email address was probably kind of weird I probably sounded like some kind of molester

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 09:41 PM
Man this is wired I usually talk about thAt girl I was talking about but talking about it with older people no offense is kind of wired but in someways better

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 09:42 PM
I mean we talk about this stuff together my bad

Kitkat22
Mar 2, 2010, 09:48 PM
Asking for you're email adress was probaly kinda wierd I probaly sounded like some kinda molester

Well we don't our email addresses because AMHD is here for people who don't want to reveal their names but who are in need of help. There are Lawyers, Doctors, Nurses, Social Workers you name it their on this forum

They are experts in their field and they give you the best advice they can without ever knowing your real name. That way it makes you open up and they can help you.

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 09:50 PM
Yah I know I'm sorry

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 09:53 PM
Thanks again you really cheered me up

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 09:58 PM
I just wish icould fit in with the people at my school I just feel like some kind of outcast

Kitkat22
Mar 2, 2010, 09:58 PM
Thanks again you really cheered me up

Goodnight. Sleep Well.

Kitkat22
Mar 2, 2010, 10:00 PM
I bet it's because you try to type too fast. :)

Take it slow. And we can definitely chat on here if you need to. Most of us are on every day. We'll take care of ya. :)


We sure will.

ohsohappy
Mar 2, 2010, 10:39 PM
Man this is wired I usualy talk about thAt girl I was talking about but talking about it with older people no offense is kinda wired but in someways better

Lol we ARE older people. :). And it's spelled w-e-i-r-d. :)

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 10:48 PM
Yah I'm a bad speller

Tmergs
Mar 2, 2010, 10:49 PM
I like the chloroform thing

Kitkat22
Mar 2, 2010, 11:40 PM
Lol we ARE older people. :). And it's spelled w-e-i-r-d. :)





Excuse me while I get my walker and take my teeth out. You know how it is with older folks. Just kidding!

Emily94
Mar 4, 2010, 07:24 AM
Hello,
I understand where your coming from, all through elementary school, middle school, and now my high school, I've been bullied/hated/made fun of. When I was in elementary the same thing happened as you, there were only 60 students in my entire school (K-8), and it was the worst years of my life, now that I'm in high school in a bigger city, I can pick the friends I want, I don't have to be friends with someone because there the only people there.
Keep your head held high, and a smile on your face, it will eventually get better, it may seem like there is no end in sight for any of this but there is! You need to understand that ending your life will not solve this, but make it worse on you family.

*If you're going through hell keep on going, you might get out before the devil even knows you're there*

Tmergs
Mar 4, 2010, 07:14 PM
Hello,
I understand where your coming from, all through elementary school, middle school, and now my high school, I've been bullied/hated/made fun of. When i was in elementary the same thing happened as you, there were only 60 students in my entire school (K-8), and it was the worst years of my life, now that I'm in high school in a bigger city, i can pick and choose the friends i want, i don't have to be friends with someone because there the only people there.
Keep your head held high, and a smile on your face, it will eventually get better, it may seem like there is no end in sight for any of this but there is! You need to understand that ending your life will not solve this, but make it worse on you family.

*If you're going through hell keep on going, you might get out before the devil even knows you're there* OK you stole that last sentence from some song but I can't think of what it is sorry if I sound rude oh and thanks

Kitkat22
Mar 4, 2010, 08:00 PM
Things are going to work out for you. Just have some confidence in yourself.

Tmergs
Mar 4, 2010, 09:39 PM
Thanks I'm excited football practice well not reall practice but spring traing starts nextweek so then I usually am less anoying because I'm tired and get rid of all my energy

Kitkat22
Mar 4, 2010, 09:52 PM
Thanks I'm excited football practice well not reall practice but spring traing starts nextweek so then I usually am less anoying because I'm tired and get rid of all my energy


Just envision this someday you are going to play ball for the "Colts"or "Saints". You may be the next Peyton or the next TeBow.

Even if you don't do that you will accomplish some things in your life that will make you wonder why you felt so bad about yourself!

Just wait and see and never, ever think about taking your own life. God created you for a reason and I think you will do good things in your life.

Get a good nights sleep. Bless you Tmergs!

Tmergs
Mar 4, 2010, 09:55 PM
Well first off I hate both those teams lol am 2nd if I end up playing pro football I'll shoot myself
I actually have a dream if joining the airforce

Kitkat22
Mar 4, 2010, 10:06 PM
Well first off I hate both those teams lol am 2nd if I end up playing pro football I'll shoot myself
I actually have a dream if joining the airforce


Good for you. My older son joined the Army right after he graduated college in 96. He is making a career of it. He has been to Iraq and Afghanistan a few times and the Lord always brings him home safe. Follow your dreams. I can't believe you don't like Peyton and the Colts.
My husband likes the Vikings and the Steelers. Goodnight. Talk to you tomorrow.

Emily94
Mar 5, 2010, 04:33 PM
ok you stole that last sentance from some song but I can't think of what it is sorry if I sound rude oh and thanks

Exactly, but it is something everyone needs to remember. Listen to the song when your down, it might just help!

Tmergs
Mar 5, 2010, 06:22 PM
Well I like that song I listen to the song crazy b**** by buck chery. When I get down in the dumps

Tmergs
Mar 5, 2010, 06:23 PM
No offence

Kitkat22
Mar 5, 2010, 09:54 PM
No offence

Hope you are doing better! No more of those suicidal thoughts. Life is a gift! You reopen it every day. I hope you will talk to your folks about this. You be Good.

ohsohappy
Mar 6, 2010, 10:21 AM
Well i like that song I listen to the song crazy b**** by buck chery. When I get down in the dumps

Haha that's an AWFUL song! But whatever helps. :)

Kitkat22
Mar 6, 2010, 12:26 PM
Haha that's an AWFUL song! but whatever helps. :)


Glad you are doing better, keep feeling good about yourself!

ohsohappy
Mar 6, 2010, 03:01 PM
Glad you are doing better, keep feeling good about yourself!

You are silly Kitkat, you meant to quote him I presume. :)

Kitkat22
Mar 6, 2010, 03:29 PM
You are silly Kitkat, you meant to quote him I presume. :)!



Of course! See I told you I'm annoying and I don't mean to be. Sorry about that!:o:o:o

Emily94
Mar 6, 2010, 03:55 PM
My brother has add/adhd, and he is a handful when he gets exited. We found out that him going on even short walks calms him down, maybe you could try going for a walk every evening? And also about the negative thoughts they come and go, writing in a journal while your upset and then reading it when your not upset kind of makes you realize most of what you were thinking is silly, when your upset you don't think right(Please don't take offence to this!). I really don't know if this will help you, but I am giving advice on what I have done and what has worked for others I know. Also try having time where you can sit and think, think about yourself, who you want to be, what you want to do, and everything like that, When you have small goals accomplishing them makes the bigger picture seem that much closer!
If you want to be in the airforce research what courses you need, what physical fitness you have to be, and then make goals relating to that. Do you talk to your parents about any of this? I know talking to my mom helps so much!