sierra808
Feb 25, 2010, 11:52 PM
Hi everyone...
There is this girl I have met recently. For me it was like love at first sight (I usually do not believe in such a thing but with her it hit me like a rock). The problem is she has a boyfriend. She is from the west coast but now studies in the east coast for college, same as me. Her boyfriend however lives in another country at the moment because of his sports career and even if he comes back to the states he will go back to the west coast and they will still not physically be together. To me, this seems like a really stupid relationship and I asked her about it. She responded that she is not in love with him or anything but that she just cannot see herself with anybody else. When I looked at her she added "..at the moment, at the moment....". I think she has given me some kind of signs, like touching me accidentally, being really comfortable in my car and walking next to me when we walk through the mall with other friends. We have never had a date or something like this. The only time we had alone together was when I dropped her off at the school and she was waiting for her friends. Even though she has given me hints (at least I think so, but it might as well be nothing and I'm just interpreting stuff into it) she does not write or contact me just to talk. If I write her however she always responds and makes jokes and tries to make fun of me. The only thing I have really felt from her side is that she has asked me if I want to be her workout buddy for 24hour fitness. Does this mean anything? Was it for real or was it only her saying it but not actually meaning it?
Anyway I hope you guys can help me a little bit in my situation...
Thanks in advance
There is this girl I have met recently. For me it was like love at first sight (I usually do not believe in such a thing but with her it hit me like a rock). The problem is she has a boyfriend. She is from the west coast but now studies in the east coast for college, same as me. Her boyfriend however lives in another country at the moment because of his sports career and even if he comes back to the states he will go back to the west coast and they will still not physically be together. To me, this seems like a really stupid relationship and I asked her about it. She responded that she is not in love with him or anything but that she just cannot see herself with anybody else. When I looked at her she added "..at the moment, at the moment....". I think she has given me some kind of signs, like touching me accidentally, being really comfortable in my car and walking next to me when we walk through the mall with other friends. We have never had a date or something like this. The only time we had alone together was when I dropped her off at the school and she was waiting for her friends. Even though she has given me hints (at least I think so, but it might as well be nothing and I'm just interpreting stuff into it) she does not write or contact me just to talk. If I write her however she always responds and makes jokes and tries to make fun of me. The only thing I have really felt from her side is that she has asked me if I want to be her workout buddy for 24hour fitness. Does this mean anything? Was it for real or was it only her saying it but not actually meaning it?
Anyway I hope you guys can help me a little bit in my situation...
Thanks in advance