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redgold
Feb 25, 2010, 04:28 AM
Me and my husband have been married for just a year now.He is around 32 and I am 21.He fails to understand me and my emotions, screams at me all the time.My friends suggest me that I should leave him asap. I am really confused what should I do? I married him because I loved him but now he shows just no interest in me.Should I stay in this marriage although I am so unhappy and wait for him to understand me or should I quit.

Devorameira
Feb 26, 2010, 03:17 PM
You really haven't provided enough details, so anything you can add will be appreciated.

Did he scream at you before you were married or is this something new? If it's new, it's possible that he's under a lot of stress. If job or financial stress is the problem, there is hope.

Does he use the screaming as a means to make you do and/or think as he wants (controls you)? If so he may be a verbally abusive spouse. If he is I would suggest that you leave before he destroys every shred of your self-esteem.

How long did you date him?

What kind of relationship did you have with him prior to the marriage?