Tonyyy
Nov 26, 2006, 09:04 AM
Me and my ex broke up 3 weeks ago. We were together for 1 year and 2 months. The reason she broke up with me is that I didn't gave her enough attention. She always doubted my feelings for her. And I hurt her by acting this way. Don't get me wrong, I showed her that I loved her (poetry, surprises, candlelight dinner,. )but not enough according to her.
Now, looking back,she is right at some points, sometimes, I acted a little bit cold towards her. I think the reason was that I was afraid to get hurt, I spent a lot of time with my friends... etc. Now I feel that did not do enough effort for her. (she is right)
She is a very good girl, and I hate it that I hurt her. If she told me she was hurting at that time, I would change my ways without a doubt.I would give her more attention in a heartbeat.Anything to make her happy.The last thing I wanted to do is hurt her. BUt she never told me a thing, all she said was, you make me happy, you give me butterflies... so I thought I was doing great. Sometimes she gave me signals, but you know, I didn't understand them at the time. Now I do... And I'm feeling bad about that.
After she broke up with me, I told her that I was sorry that I made her hurt, that she is my world, I won't let her leave,I said even though I acted liltle cold sometimes, what trully matters is what's within my heart... but she doubted that our relationship will work.She had too many doubts. She admitted that she was wrong too, that she didn't spoke to me about her problems. BUt its too late. I bought her something she always wanted. But none of that worked. I did not think it would work but at least I showed her that I care a LOT.
After we broke up we spoke 3 times. Every time I spoke about "us" she started crying. I decided to never speak about us again, I don't want to hurt her more. Its all in the past
She told me she is happy now, that she likes her freedom. She is going out a lot BUT she is neglecting school. She tells me that she loves me and that she's missing me when she's alone.
Yesterday I saw her at a party (I did not see her for a week) we talked for a few minutes, we laughed, we danced for a sec.She told me that I looked Hot:).It was difficult for me to see her again, but I did not showed that. I acted happy.
I really miss her a lot!! Its been true all along, you don't know what you got till its gone!
I want her back, what should I do? I only text or call her if she does it first. I am doing fine, I'm trying to move on, working out, meeting new girls (just for myself esteem), but still I want her back...
Need some good advice! I want her back!
Now, looking back,she is right at some points, sometimes, I acted a little bit cold towards her. I think the reason was that I was afraid to get hurt, I spent a lot of time with my friends... etc. Now I feel that did not do enough effort for her. (she is right)
She is a very good girl, and I hate it that I hurt her. If she told me she was hurting at that time, I would change my ways without a doubt.I would give her more attention in a heartbeat.Anything to make her happy.The last thing I wanted to do is hurt her. BUt she never told me a thing, all she said was, you make me happy, you give me butterflies... so I thought I was doing great. Sometimes she gave me signals, but you know, I didn't understand them at the time. Now I do... And I'm feeling bad about that.
After she broke up with me, I told her that I was sorry that I made her hurt, that she is my world, I won't let her leave,I said even though I acted liltle cold sometimes, what trully matters is what's within my heart... but she doubted that our relationship will work.She had too many doubts. She admitted that she was wrong too, that she didn't spoke to me about her problems. BUt its too late. I bought her something she always wanted. But none of that worked. I did not think it would work but at least I showed her that I care a LOT.
After we broke up we spoke 3 times. Every time I spoke about "us" she started crying. I decided to never speak about us again, I don't want to hurt her more. Its all in the past
She told me she is happy now, that she likes her freedom. She is going out a lot BUT she is neglecting school. She tells me that she loves me and that she's missing me when she's alone.
Yesterday I saw her at a party (I did not see her for a week) we talked for a few minutes, we laughed, we danced for a sec.She told me that I looked Hot:).It was difficult for me to see her again, but I did not showed that. I acted happy.
I really miss her a lot!! Its been true all along, you don't know what you got till its gone!
I want her back, what should I do? I only text or call her if she does it first. I am doing fine, I'm trying to move on, working out, meeting new girls (just for myself esteem), but still I want her back...
Need some good advice! I want her back!