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Nov 24, 2006, 04:26 AM
I had a man ask me out for a date while I was working. I gave him my number and he called me. We ended up going out for about a week and it was very intense and beautiful. I know he was like in love with me by how he looked at me and talked to me. I found out he still had pictures of his exgirlfriend so my ego got involved and I freaked out on him. I said a lot of mean things and accused him of being dirty. He did not receive this very well even after I apologized. I did feel very bad and acknowledged that I overeacted. He hung out with me for 2 more nights after that and then he just all of a sudden stopped calling me. He used to call me like 10 times in a day and leave messages.
So 2 days go by and I called him to see what was up. He just said he wanted time to hang out with his buddies but I pushed him for what the real reason was. He said that I turned him off by the things I said the other night. So I put words in his mouth and said he thinks I am not the right girl for him and that we should go our separate ways because this is not working for him. He then said I could call him just to talk whenever and I replied by saying Problably not. SO 5 days go by and nothing.
I called him up to apologize again. He did not seem to receptive or forgiving. SO I called again 4 days later and apolized again and asked if he hated me. He said he did not hate me. He had to go and said he would call back that night. No phone call. 2 days go by and he calls me at 3am to say he felt bad for not calling me and that I should come over there. I went. He was very distant and I am sure it must have been just a booty call. So the next night I called his house but he may not have checked and may not have known because he was not at home. SO a week went by and he did not call but maybe he was expecting me to call. I don't know.
That next weekend I was out with my friends and I looked super hot and he was out by chance and walked by smiling all flustered and said hey as he was staring at me and talking to his friends. I avoided him because I was mad. He walked by again and stopped, stared, and smiled before leaving with his friends. I have no idea what he thinks but I am to chicken to ask him. My friend met his friends who said that he gets mad whenever they bring me up now. So maybe he is over me. Any opinions? I just want closure so maybe I can move on.
So 2 days go by and I called him to see what was up. He just said he wanted time to hang out with his buddies but I pushed him for what the real reason was. He said that I turned him off by the things I said the other night. So I put words in his mouth and said he thinks I am not the right girl for him and that we should go our separate ways because this is not working for him. He then said I could call him just to talk whenever and I replied by saying Problably not. SO 5 days go by and nothing.
I called him up to apologize again. He did not seem to receptive or forgiving. SO I called again 4 days later and apolized again and asked if he hated me. He said he did not hate me. He had to go and said he would call back that night. No phone call. 2 days go by and he calls me at 3am to say he felt bad for not calling me and that I should come over there. I went. He was very distant and I am sure it must have been just a booty call. So the next night I called his house but he may not have checked and may not have known because he was not at home. SO a week went by and he did not call but maybe he was expecting me to call. I don't know.
That next weekend I was out with my friends and I looked super hot and he was out by chance and walked by smiling all flustered and said hey as he was staring at me and talking to his friends. I avoided him because I was mad. He walked by again and stopped, stared, and smiled before leaving with his friends. I have no idea what he thinks but I am to chicken to ask him. My friend met his friends who said that he gets mad whenever they bring me up now. So maybe he is over me. Any opinions? I just want closure so maybe I can move on.