MY boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me recently. He does things and says things he doesn't mean when he is mad. We got into a fight because he lied to me and he got mad at me because I wanted proof that he wasn't lying to me. He eventually admitted that he lied to me and didn't apologize and broke up. He wants nothing to do with me anymore but I can't get over the fact that he broke up with me. He has been talking to a whole bunch of girls ever since and I am very upset I don't know what to do. I feel like he's only being like this because he is mad at me.

How long has it been? If it's just because he's mad, it will wear off. It's even more likely that this one incident isn't the reason you broke up and there are more problems than you or maybe even he might realize. The bottom line is, if it's meant to work, it will. Don't close yourself off from the world. Three years is a long time to build love, and it's going to take time to break that love down and face reality if he isn't going to come back to you.

Has this been a reoccuring pattern?
Lying can be a dealbreaker.

I suggest you go no contact and start getting on with your own life rather than wait for him to get in touch.

If you're broken up, then go your separate ways. Sounds like he's moving on with his life. Time for you to do the same.

I suggest you follow the no contact rules so that you can heal from this break up. Check out my signature for no contact related threads.

If you continue to get updates about him, you will only prolong the misery.