Krys612
Jan 30, 2010, 08:39 AM
I finally met the perfect guy for me. Every quality I had ever wanted in a guy, everything that I found in people that I had dated that I liked, all combined into one amazing person. In 3 weeks I grew to care about this guy more than I've cared about anyone in my entire life and it scares me because I've been in serious relationships before.
And to him I was everything he has ever looked for or wanted yet the only problem is that he recently realized that he isn't over his ex. They had been together for 3 years and had only been broken up for 3 months when I met him. He told me that he feels like his heart is divided in half and it isn't fair to me if his heart isn't 100% mine.
He wants to stay best friends with me because "I'm too amazing to completely let me out of his life" It would be much easier if I didn't care about him or if he didn't care about me, but that isn't the case. I don't want to let go of the best person I've ever met yet I don't want to feel like I'm being strung along until he decides what his heart really wants.
What should I do?
And to him I was everything he has ever looked for or wanted yet the only problem is that he recently realized that he isn't over his ex. They had been together for 3 years and had only been broken up for 3 months when I met him. He told me that he feels like his heart is divided in half and it isn't fair to me if his heart isn't 100% mine.
He wants to stay best friends with me because "I'm too amazing to completely let me out of his life" It would be much easier if I didn't care about him or if he didn't care about me, but that isn't the case. I don't want to let go of the best person I've ever met yet I don't want to feel like I'm being strung along until he decides what his heart really wants.
What should I do?