Kohoutek
Jan 27, 2010, 08:34 AM
I'm not sure where this belongs, but hopefully I'm in the right place. I kept meaning to Google the meaning of this dream but seeing as it's quite specific, I've not had any luck - and I can usually count on you guys for some input. :)
My grandmother died in October last year, it wasn't sudden but it wasn't really expected. Ever since then, I've been having this recurring dream (probably about 6 or 7 times since). It's not that the dream repeats itself, but the situation does.
I dream that my grandmother is walking, talking, moving around - being exactly how I remember her basically, all her quirks and mannerisms - but she's dead. And I know she's dead, and all my family know she's dead, but she has no idea. I spend the dream trying to protect her from finding out that she's died. At one point in the dream last night, which is a new occurrence, there was a mysterious man who came to check up on her to see how we were looking after her whilst she was dead. He said things like "You know she shouldn't really be up and walking around, she should be in bed." and things like that. In the dream, I know that we can't keep her forever, and we're going to have to let her go, but I've never actually gotten to the point of the dream where we do tell her what's happened to her and let her go.
I would be grateful if anyone could shed any light on what these dreams could mean? I've not had a recurring dream this frequent and this vivid in a long time. I'm not on any medications and I don't think I'm having any problems in my real life that this could be symbolising...
My grandmother died in October last year, it wasn't sudden but it wasn't really expected. Ever since then, I've been having this recurring dream (probably about 6 or 7 times since). It's not that the dream repeats itself, but the situation does.
I dream that my grandmother is walking, talking, moving around - being exactly how I remember her basically, all her quirks and mannerisms - but she's dead. And I know she's dead, and all my family know she's dead, but she has no idea. I spend the dream trying to protect her from finding out that she's died. At one point in the dream last night, which is a new occurrence, there was a mysterious man who came to check up on her to see how we were looking after her whilst she was dead. He said things like "You know she shouldn't really be up and walking around, she should be in bed." and things like that. In the dream, I know that we can't keep her forever, and we're going to have to let her go, but I've never actually gotten to the point of the dream where we do tell her what's happened to her and let her go.
I would be grateful if anyone could shed any light on what these dreams could mean? I've not had a recurring dream this frequent and this vivid in a long time. I'm not on any medications and I don't think I'm having any problems in my real life that this could be symbolising...