I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I have told him I love him quite a few times but every time I tell him he says nothing and I don't know what to do I love him loads and he has told me he doesn't want children and get married I want children and get married I don't know what to do can you help me please?

You should have a serious talk about where your relationship is going-if you have different goals in life and are not on the same page you need to reconsider being in a relationship with him.

Seems like a pretty big difference in what you both want in life, and the way you both are.

It doesn't look good for the future, unless both of you can come to some kind of agreement.

If he is sure he never wants kids or get married, and you are sure you do, then this is not going to work, sorry to say. No matter how much you love him (or he loves you?), it won't work as you both just want different things in life.

You may love him with all your heart, but I don't think he loves you with all of his.

You both sound not that compatible and I hope you don't live together because he would be tickled pink to have a live in love bunny with no strings attached, and no commitment, and no long term plan.

He is enjoying the ride and wants no responsibility for anything else. Maybe its time to be honest with each other and see if your headed in the same direction. Doesn't seem like it to me.

And why are you still with him??

What is he contributing to the relationship??

If love and marriage are what you are wanting then the obvious decision is to end the relationship before more time is wasted.

Seems like the relationship is not moving forward and isn't meeting your expectations. I know it's not an easy decision to end it, but sometimes it is necessary.

When someone tells you something >>>listen. Don't let it go in one hear and out the other. After you have listen to what they said then think about it. Never satisfice your wants foor someone else's because you will only regret it.

Now your left wondering if he loves you or not because he doesn't show it. Well, I must ask "if he doesn't tell you then how does he show it?"