fisk
Jan 24, 2010, 04:00 PM
Hi everyone,
I have been going out with the first guy I've ever slept with for 7 months now. He'25 and I'm 23. Even though I had boyfriends in the past, it never really felt that good with someone so it never went to the next level. When I met my guy, we clicked right away, and it all went really fast. I have never felt this way about anyone.
Unfortunately he lives in another country, but we still manage to see each other for at least 3 days every 2 weeks. We are both doing sacrifices so we can find the money to see each other, because we are both still students. We talk every night, and every time I see him, it's even better.
Today I was having coffee with some girlfriends and most of them agreed that a girl's fist guy is never the best guy for her, even if everyone seems to think so at first. People say that sexually the more experiences you have the best it gets; and that the most guys you go out with, the better you know what you really need.
I'm not saying I'm going to marry my boyfriend, but it's just that I don't want to think that this won't last, just because he's my first. I love him, and I have waited for a long time for him, otherwise I wouldn't have been a virgin until I was 23. He respects me, and he says he's never felt this way about anyone; and he's had his share of girlfriends.
This threat probably makes no sense, but I guess I just freaked out at the idea of this being 'just a first', when I'm feeling so strongly about him. For all the more experienced ladies out there, have you heard of people staying with 'their first' and being happy about it?
I have been going out with the first guy I've ever slept with for 7 months now. He'25 and I'm 23. Even though I had boyfriends in the past, it never really felt that good with someone so it never went to the next level. When I met my guy, we clicked right away, and it all went really fast. I have never felt this way about anyone.
Unfortunately he lives in another country, but we still manage to see each other for at least 3 days every 2 weeks. We are both doing sacrifices so we can find the money to see each other, because we are both still students. We talk every night, and every time I see him, it's even better.
Today I was having coffee with some girlfriends and most of them agreed that a girl's fist guy is never the best guy for her, even if everyone seems to think so at first. People say that sexually the more experiences you have the best it gets; and that the most guys you go out with, the better you know what you really need.
I'm not saying I'm going to marry my boyfriend, but it's just that I don't want to think that this won't last, just because he's my first. I love him, and I have waited for a long time for him, otherwise I wouldn't have been a virgin until I was 23. He respects me, and he says he's never felt this way about anyone; and he's had his share of girlfriends.
This threat probably makes no sense, but I guess I just freaked out at the idea of this being 'just a first', when I'm feeling so strongly about him. For all the more experienced ladies out there, have you heard of people staying with 'their first' and being happy about it?