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evelyn1989
Jan 12, 2010, 05:37 AM
There was a guy in two of my college modules last term. He would kind of like, look at me a lot when he had the chance. Especially when I’m not looking at him, like he just sits there and gazes at me. If I look his way, he would just look away.

And when the lecture ends, he makes sure he times his packing up and leaving of the class at the same time as we would end up leaving together and “bumping” into each other in the corridor outside. But all the while, he didn't really make an effort to talk to me or anything.. Towards the end, I did try to smile at him, and there was once when I had to tell him something and he chatted to and smiled at me.

This term, I saw him in the corridor last week and I just smiled at him, he saw me but he already passed. Today, he was lingering outside my class and when he saw me, he smiled. I was shocked but returned it. Is he interested? And should I do something, add him to Facebook? I think that's weird though

kctiger
Jan 12, 2010, 07:07 AM
There is no rule that says a girl can't make the first move. Perhaps he is too shy to pull the trigger. Ask him to an informal date, like lunch or coffee, or some sort of study session together to get to know each other a bit more.

I wish
Jan 12, 2010, 01:03 PM
All indications show that he's interested, but extremely shy.

Why not make the first move and ask him to hang out?

I would advise against Facebook though. Face-to-face has as nicer touch and you don't need to be stalking each other's profile when you haven't even said 2 words to each other yet.

HistorianChick
Jan 12, 2010, 01:46 PM
Leave Facebook out of it... ask him something! Maybe for coffee or even, "how was your break?" anything to get the conversation started. A lot of times, that is the hardest part.

Go for it! :) And, keep us posted!

Jake2008
Jan 12, 2010, 03:51 PM
I totally agree. This is 2010 girl!

I would read all the signals as him being just too shy to start up a conversation with you.

"How's it goin'" is a good one too. Short and sweet. Start small and the conversation will grow.

neverme
Jan 12, 2010, 04:49 PM
How's it going? Or How was your break are both good... go for it!

I think he likes you :D

jaime90
Jan 12, 2010, 06:07 PM
Add him to Facebook. Casually ask him for his phone number- text him. Call him. And if you want to know if he's interested: ASK HIM!