Cfaligal
Jan 11, 2010, 12:36 PM
Hey all,
I was just turned on to this site by googling the same question, and decided to join. Hopefully I can answer some questions for other members as well.
Okay my problem is one I have never faced before in any other relationship. I want sex more than my boyfriend. We have sex quite often actually, but I always initiate it, and he told me he naturally has a lower sex drive. He also said that he only had sex once a month or so with his ex gf's and that they never reached orgasm. Where as I have no trouble reaching orgasm, and usually have 3 or 4 by the time he finishes.
Well, He doesn't have any trouble getting it up, or having an orgasm every time we do it. I know he's only doing it as often as we do (once or twice a week) because he wants to please me and keep me satisfied, but I want him to enjoy pursuing me and wanting to have sex with me as much as I do him. He tells me he's very attracted to me, and that it has nothing to do with me, but I feel like it's my fault.
Any ideas or suggestions as to how I get help him want sex more would be much appreciated. I think it's because he has never really had a girlfriend that he's been able to satisfy until he met me, or maybe stress at work? I want to spend the rest of my life with this guy, and he recently told me the same, but I'm not sure if that's going to be possible unless my sexual appetite is full-filled.
I need help.
I was just turned on to this site by googling the same question, and decided to join. Hopefully I can answer some questions for other members as well.
Okay my problem is one I have never faced before in any other relationship. I want sex more than my boyfriend. We have sex quite often actually, but I always initiate it, and he told me he naturally has a lower sex drive. He also said that he only had sex once a month or so with his ex gf's and that they never reached orgasm. Where as I have no trouble reaching orgasm, and usually have 3 or 4 by the time he finishes.
Well, He doesn't have any trouble getting it up, or having an orgasm every time we do it. I know he's only doing it as often as we do (once or twice a week) because he wants to please me and keep me satisfied, but I want him to enjoy pursuing me and wanting to have sex with me as much as I do him. He tells me he's very attracted to me, and that it has nothing to do with me, but I feel like it's my fault.
Any ideas or suggestions as to how I get help him want sex more would be much appreciated. I think it's because he has never really had a girlfriend that he's been able to satisfy until he met me, or maybe stress at work? I want to spend the rest of my life with this guy, and he recently told me the same, but I'm not sure if that's going to be possible unless my sexual appetite is full-filled.
I need help.