View Full Version : How to handle things?
EmoPrincess
Jan 10, 2010, 08:18 PM
Okay, well many things have gone on in my life, and it's time I brought the causes to justice. How should I go about this? This is one of the hardest things I've done in my life and terrifies me. However, I can't take this hell for much longer and I'm done clawing my way up this slick cliff to fall further than where I started. I realized the only way to reach the level ground is to reach out and accept one of the ropes to freedom thrown to me. Hopefully that metaphor wasn't too out there. Regardless, how should I go about this? A very very brief description of the events of which I speak may be found in my other posts, for example: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/feud-between-father-fiance-433006-2.html
Thank you greatly to those who will grant me their time and suggestions.
EmoPrincess
Jan 10, 2010, 09:05 PM
Can someone please help me with this. I honeslty do not know what all options I have, what resources there are and how to use them, or what would be best.
EmoPrincess
Jan 11, 2010, 03:04 PM
Please
cdad
Jan 11, 2010, 04:57 PM
What is it exactly that you don't already know the answer to? If your being abused then get away. You will have to contact teachers or school nurse or child protective services. You have received answers all along and seem to be ignoring them.
EmoPrincess
Jan 11, 2010, 07:08 PM
I don't know exactly what I'm supposed to do. Walk up to a teacher and say "hey what's up I'm abused?"
cdad
Jan 11, 2010, 07:19 PM
You might try asking for a conference with them or school nurse if you have one. Ask for some 1 on 1 time for a private matter. If you just blurt it out they may faint.
Are there other places you might go like to church or anywhere that you engauge trusted adults ? Or you could tell your doctor.
EmoPrincess
Jan 12, 2010, 08:16 PM
I don't go to church nor do I trust any adults.
EmoPrincess
Jan 12, 2010, 08:43 PM
What I've been considering is waiting for the next family fight, when my Dad will most likely hit me, Mum, or my brother, and call the police then. The only downside on that is I do not know when the next fight will be.
cdad
Jan 13, 2010, 02:33 PM
That sounds like your only choice at this point if there is no one else to talk to. Just be very careful.
EmoPrincess
Jan 13, 2010, 07:15 PM
I will
EmoPrincess
Mar 16, 2010, 03:04 PM
I have a feeling a fight will occur tonight... He hits anyone, I'm calling police
0rphan
Mar 16, 2010, 03:19 PM
You might try writing down all the things that are wrong in your life.
Deal with one at a time.
Make a list,decide what action is open to you against each problem.
If there is a specific problem that you really have no idea what to do about, why not bring it to this board for future advice.
EmoPrincess
Mar 16, 2010, 03:22 PM
That is a good idea