arle
Jan 4, 2010, 04:25 PM
My ex girlfriend's dad lives in Colombia and has been missing for a month. They suspect that he was kidnapped and she is going through a lot of pain.
I want to be there for her because I still love her and she says that she still loves me but before I found out about this she had done something that really hurt me and I decided that I had to move on because she had not done anything to show me she wanted to change.
She had emailed me to tell me about this terrible news and that she didn't want me to think that she did not just care and that she still loved me. Now that this tragic event has occurred, I feel that I need to put our dilemma behind us and be there for her as a friend even thought I am still in love with her.. I am trying to be as selfless as possible but I also don't want to allow myself to get hurt as well as I am trying to move on. I have been talking to her by chat a few times about what is going on with her but she has not asked me to see her. I feel like I need to take the initiative to do more than because it is a terrible thing that she must be going through and I want to be there for her.. Any advice?
I want to be there for her because I still love her and she says that she still loves me but before I found out about this she had done something that really hurt me and I decided that I had to move on because she had not done anything to show me she wanted to change.
She had emailed me to tell me about this terrible news and that she didn't want me to think that she did not just care and that she still loved me. Now that this tragic event has occurred, I feel that I need to put our dilemma behind us and be there for her as a friend even thought I am still in love with her.. I am trying to be as selfless as possible but I also don't want to allow myself to get hurt as well as I am trying to move on. I have been talking to her by chat a few times about what is going on with her but she has not asked me to see her. I feel like I need to take the initiative to do more than because it is a terrible thing that she must be going through and I want to be there for her.. Any advice?