I've known this boy about 8months now, we began as friends and it turned out to a few dates. Then it took a while and we stopped talking, and it was me who always had to talk to him or else we've turned into strangers long ago. A month ago he told me to meet again and a few days later I texted him asking him to go somewhere and he said he didn't want to. And from there I stopped contacting him. Now I bumbed into him recently and he was like when you meet someone you had wanted to meet so badly, and seemed that he still likes me. Now I'm considering talking to him again, as friends, but the question is, will I be seen as if I gave in/couldnt make it without him, like I fell for him? Because sometimes I say, "no way, it's not that there arent any other boys!" but then I say, "remember those great times i had with him?? i'm so silly to act like this(i.e. not talking to him so that he doesnt see it as i fell for him). "
.. what should I do? If I don't talk to him, he won't talk to me I guess as he thinks he would disturb my focus on school, or he might think I don't like him, and on the other hand I don't want to let this friendship we used to have go away just like that
Pleaasee help :) & thanks for reading this

Don't you want a boyfriend that likes you the same way that you like him? A boy that wants to be with you, talk to you, and hang out with you? Don't you think you're worth that?

This boy seems to be just playing games with being boyfriend/girlfriend. He doesn't seem to want to be in a relationship.

Hold out for the guy that wants you to be his girlfriend as much as you want him to be your boyfriend. The guy that loves to be with you - and you with him.

Keep your chin up, sweetie. :)

I guess you're right, thanks a lot :)