Jane Brand
Jan 3, 2010, 10:57 AM
I am not the kind of person that likes to be emotional or even remotely discuss emotions.
However, after a awkward conversation, my boyfriend and I decided that we were going to try again. And we are now 2 months into the relationship and I have a feeling that we are going to end like before with me frustrated with my inability to convey my emotions and him being clueless on why I ended up breaking it off.
Basically, I sometimes feel that he ignores me and chooses his friends over me and he has this habit where I don't hear anything from for days and I know that he is not doing anything important that could let that happen.
I never want to bring it up when I talk to him in case it sounds like I am jealous and that is one thing I am definitely not .
There are occasions that I get so angry with him that I finally convince myself that I should talk to him but when I am with him I just don't.
I love when I with him and we are able to have a conversation for hours and hours, but just never about emotions.
I do have to point out that he sometimes tries to talk about it but I automatically dismiss it and change the topic.
Is this relationship doomed to repeat it self and fail? And what can I do to stop that from happening?
However, after a awkward conversation, my boyfriend and I decided that we were going to try again. And we are now 2 months into the relationship and I have a feeling that we are going to end like before with me frustrated with my inability to convey my emotions and him being clueless on why I ended up breaking it off.
Basically, I sometimes feel that he ignores me and chooses his friends over me and he has this habit where I don't hear anything from for days and I know that he is not doing anything important that could let that happen.
I never want to bring it up when I talk to him in case it sounds like I am jealous and that is one thing I am definitely not .
There are occasions that I get so angry with him that I finally convince myself that I should talk to him but when I am with him I just don't.
I love when I with him and we are able to have a conversation for hours and hours, but just never about emotions.
I do have to point out that he sometimes tries to talk about it but I automatically dismiss it and change the topic.
Is this relationship doomed to repeat it self and fail? And what can I do to stop that from happening?