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ssathish315
Dec 31, 2009, 08:13 AM
Hello.. I love a girl very much since childhood but I haven't expressed my interest to her... I expressed recently she refused saying that she is loving someone... but she is very friendly with me and she feels so embarrassed that I expressed her now.. she replied me saying if I would have proposed before her boy friend she would accept me... I don't want to lose her in my life... I can give anything to her even my life to her... I feel so frustrated that I expressed it late... I want her as she is something great to me... I am very mad at her and not able to forget her... can you suggest something to me

HistorianChick
Dec 31, 2009, 09:08 AM
Unfortunately, it seems that she has decided to be with this other man. She is in a relationship with him, she chose him, you need to respect that and let her be.

When someone is in a relationship, they are IN a relationship and are off limits to you.

jmjoseph
Dec 31, 2009, 10:12 AM
"i can give anything to her even my life to her"??

Do the right thing.

Go about your business.

She has a boyfriend, and she is not available. If she decides to leave this boyfriend, then, and only then, you try to spend some time with her.

Never say that you will be willing to die for someone.

Chances are that you will be in love several times before you settle down with one person.

THEN, you will be willing to die for your family's welfare.

Until then, just enjoy your life, and be the best at whatever you decide to do.

I know how it is at that age, where you feel as if you cannot go on without that special person, but we all do it, and carry on.

Good luck to you.

Devorameira
Dec 31, 2009, 10:22 AM
It's too late. Move on and find a girl that will be your own. She already belongs to someone else.

jaime90
Jan 2, 2010, 02:52 PM
She is taken. Keep her as a friend, and don't pose a threat to her and her boyfriend. It would be very disrespectful for you to try to get between them, or to try to steal her away.

am3201993
Jan 3, 2010, 08:05 PM
The heart can love some one else but ask yourself "do I really love that person?" you know and find some one that you can relate to you know?

jaime90
Jan 4, 2010, 12:01 PM
I disagree with am3201993. Loving someone is not just romantic feelings for the person, it is a lot deeper.

treptrip
Oct 19, 2010, 11:37 PM
I disagree with am3201993. loving someone is not just romantic feelings for the person, it is a lot deeper.

That is true. We as human will never get to understand that deeper inner thing inside of you. You got to be a man and look for another girl. If she does leave him then go after her and comfort her or encourage her.