View Full Version : Why do guys stare at girls
confuzed1
Dec 25, 2009, 06:51 PM
There's this guy who is in one of my clases and sometimes sees me in the hall way. When I do know that he is staring at me it is because I can see him out of the corner of my eye. When I am busy doing something and just happen to look up in his direction, he quickly looks away. I do not understand!
sabrewolfe
Dec 25, 2009, 06:55 PM
Guys are just more stimulated visually, by what we see. Not to say that it isn't rude to stare.
confuzed1
Dec 25, 2009, 08:09 PM
O OK. What could I say to this boy who won't stop staring at me? In a non-rude way.
KISS
Dec 25, 2009, 08:16 PM
I'd think of it as a compliment.
Would this work? "Do you like me or something?"
confuzed1
Dec 25, 2009, 08:33 PM
I would think of it as a complement too, except for the fact that I have no idea why he is staring at me..
Is it a good idea to find out why 1st?
KISS
Dec 25, 2009, 08:44 PM
The why is that your attractive to him. It doesn't necessarily mean that he likes you. Visually, your attractive or some part of you is. It could be anybody. It could be a girl has a nice butt, nice legs, nice face, curves in the right places, etc.
Way back when I learned about body language the two on the top of the list is eye to body then eye to eye, then I think voice to voice. It's been about 35 years. There are like 12 contacts.
confuzed1
Dec 25, 2009, 08:59 PM
O okay, so he's basically just checking me out in a way. What are the other contacts? I'm curious just to know
KISS
Dec 25, 2009, 10:25 PM
It would take me a while to figure it out, but it ultimately ends genitals to genitals. (eye, body, mouth, voice, hand, breast, genitals) enter into the permutations in which some don't make much sense like breast to genitals)
It basically says that a relationship tyically follows that progression.\
confuzed1
Dec 26, 2009, 09:11 AM
O OK I see. So guys who stare are might be just lusting. What else could I ask besides if he likes me?
KISS
Dec 26, 2009, 05:49 PM
Maybe not even that. Given your ages, he just may like you, but too shy to ask. Sometimes when someone is extremely attractive, men think they are off limits.
Catch him off guard and ask him to "Wanna go bowling/roller skating etc. on Saturday?
confuzed1
Dec 26, 2009, 07:40 PM
O, I see! And I did not know that on the off limits thing, I thought that was only with people who are taken (aka dating).
That could work too, depends on when I see him next too. So asking him this might show how he feels or something?
confuzed1
May 19, 2010, 02:08 PM
Still does the same thing. I did not want to ask him. He is kind of nice to me but is still quiet. I haven't paid much attention to him. Reason being of all this is because I have a boyfriend, we have been dating for 4 months now :D!
Jeha
May 22, 2010, 09:22 PM
Well I'll tell you when I see a girl that "looks good" I will mostlikely star only because I'm like "dam" she looks so good. Its prob the same with the boys that look at you
confuzed1
May 29, 2010, 05:50 PM
haha. O, I see. Thank you, that helped a lot =)