View Full Version : Expirimentation and sex change.
jaime90
Dec 24, 2009, 10:54 PM
Is it normal to think about, or be curious about sexual expirimentation with the same sex when you KNOW you are straight? (ie. Having a threesome?) How about thinking about a sex change? (ie. What is sex like for a woman/man?) And wanting to try it? I'm wondering if anyone who is straight has conversations about these curiosities with their partner, or if they've had the same thoughts..
Boricua1
Dec 25, 2009, 04:22 AM
I am a straight woman... have had my share of experimentation... for fanatsy's sake.. not necessarily gender confusion or sexuality... always wanted men, thought grils were hot because heck we are... (Anyway I guess that's pretty striaght) Always even a bit boy crazy so not into girls... but anyway back to the point...
Maybe I'm a wierdo.. but my greatest fantasy would be to experience sex as a man... in fact, I think when I would even fantasize in my mind, I always had a hard time sexually visualizing intercourse from the female perspective even though I am a female.. in my mind I invision myself as a female... and I NEVER had any fantasies about strappin onto a man.. or pentrating a man...
I guess I just don't emotionally internalize my sexual fantasies from a penetration factor.. I always felt like somehow... it should have been the other way around just naturally for me in my head... I'm more of a matural picther.. than a catcher.. and NO I'm NOT controlling or DOM or anything.. or some mega butch in a girls bod... or anything.. I can't really describe it just to say that always I've kind of felt more like I should have been a pitcher... like I wish I was the one giving the experience rather than receiving.. or I imagine my role as more graphically involved in the sexual prcess than a "hole" can provide.. if that makes any sense whatsoever...
I'm reading that back myself and it doesn't make sense.. LOL...
So let me try again... In the threesome fantasy I felt most strange about being with a girl not because I was with a girl... but because I couldn't figure it out cause I don't have a penis... I imagine something is just missing if I can't penetrate.. but not like fake.. like dildo.. but really a penis..
Oh god.. now I feel like it reads like I'm crazy.. LOL. I may regret posting this. LOL
jaime90
Dec 25, 2009, 01:36 PM
Makes sense to me. I figured I would regret asking the question because people would think I wasn't straight because I've imagined expirimenting, etc. And I TOTALLY get where you're coming from with most of your post.