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heather2007
Nov 9, 2006, 05:35 PM
I just want to know if I should wait for my ex boyfriend to come back.. which I have a feeling deep inside he will.. Or move on.. I love him and I am willing to wait for him.. and give him space.. If I know he's coming back. But I don't want to be wasting time on nothing. What should I do

JoeCanada76
Nov 9, 2006, 05:46 PM
I can tell you certain paths and options that you have. It is up to you which one you choose. Just to give an instant reaction and feeling. He is your ex for a reason. The very most important thing is that you follow your heart. No matter what happens in any situations. These are important for growing and becoming a better person. Good and bad experiances.


Joe

kdc62604
Nov 9, 2006, 05:48 PM
If he loves you he'll be back

heather2007
Nov 9, 2006, 05:55 PM
He says he still loves me as a person.. what's that mean

JoeCanada76
Nov 9, 2006, 06:39 PM
As a person. That means he is trying to say he still loves you and cares about you but not in the same way. That is what I think. You need to ask him exactly what does he think that means and how are you suppose to take that?

Skell
Nov 9, 2006, 09:43 PM
It means he doesn't love you like he would love someone he wants to be with.

It is a bit of a cop out line that people use usually when dumping someone.

Sorry, but I have heard it before. It is used to soften the blow.

I think your best option is to move on. Move forward in a healthy direction and find happiness without him.

If he chooses to come back one day and you still think it might work then so be it. But right now it is over and time to move on. Sorry, not what you wanted to hear but it is the truth!

abbie1982
Nov 13, 2006, 10:27 AM
Will I ever be a mother

Sentra
Nov 13, 2006, 10:45 AM
We can't see beyond a choice that we have yet to make, and unless you make one you cannot see the chances ahead.

Don't waste your time on a 'nothing'. If you love him, let him go. If he comes back, he is yours. If he does not, it was never meant to be.