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lolalola84
Nov 18, 2009, 10:36 AM
I am a virgin who recently decided to sleep with my boyfriend for the first time. He was also a virgin and inexperienced. When it came to the time for penetration he seemed unsure what to do so I tried to guide him to the right place. However, it didn't feel like he completely entered me. I could feel some sort of contact but it was not painful or uncomfortable and there was no bleeding as I was expecting. While he was thrusting I didn't feel anything at all. I'm unsure if he actually entered me, he did come though. Is it possible that he may not have been entering me at all and does this mean I'm still a virgin?

J_9
Nov 18, 2009, 10:40 AM
How old are you?

Synnen
Nov 18, 2009, 10:54 AM
I'd like to add that asking multiple times isn't going to get you an answer at all until you provide us with your age.

lolalola84
Nov 18, 2009, 10:58 AM
I'm 25 years old.

I didn't actually mean to ask this multiple times - I didn't think it had actually worked the first time!

justcurious55
Nov 18, 2009, 11:33 AM
You couldn't tell if he "completely" entered you? Does that mean you know he at least partly did? I would say that no, you're probably not a virgin. I didn't feel pain or bleed my first time either. While those things are common with first times, they don't always happen.