All right, so this might come off as dumb to a lot of guys, but it really hit me hard, and I don't know what to do... I love my girl friend more then I could ever explain, but tonight she told me kissed another girl when she was drunk.. now, the way I was raised, same sex or not, cheating is cheating.. then she gave me the well I was drunk and it didn't mean any thing talk... :confused: then she started crying after this long lecture of how she didn't think it was cheating and switched around to saying how sorry she was and how she knew she messed up and didn't want to lose me... :( I don't know what to do... I'm really upset about it, and I care greatly for her... I'm having a hard time being all gun-ho about the same sex thing like a lot of the other guys I know.. it just doesn't click right with me... any advice?

Count your blessings that you have been made aware of the facts at this stage.
The leopard has never changed its spots.
Stick to your own moral values and
do not waver.
Ultimately you will become a winner.