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jewels7683
Nov 8, 2006, 01:59 PM
Yesterday, my boyfriend was having a hard day. I listened to him and what he had to say and try to console him also. I also asked him if calling once a day was OK. He said it was. I didn't call him anymore that day so he could have some room to think. I called him this morning and no answer. I tried again a little later, and no answer again. I thought about just letting it go, but I was worried about him, so I called him one more time a couple hours after the second call. He answered. I asked him how he was doing and everything. He said he was doing better. He wasn't doing much of the talking. He apologised for that by saying he just woke up. I finally got him talking my ear off. He told me that he was excited to see me on Friday. He could tell something was wrong in my voice and I told him the truth that I was just worried about him but I shouldn't be worried cause he said he was fine. I had to get going to lunch and he said he had something's to do. I said well do you want me to call you tomorrow or just wait till Friday. Hes like call whenever you feel like and I told him I didn't want to call too much and smother him ( I had a problem with that and that caused a break and now we are back together). So now I'm not sure if I should call him tomorrow or just wait till Friday. I always think that maybe I should just give him a day an d not call him but then I get to thinking well maybe he thinks I don't care anymore and I call him. Basically, what the question is, should I still call him tomorrow or just wait till Friday? And if I do wait till Friday, will he think I don't care?

shygrneyzs
Nov 8, 2006, 02:10 PM
To call or not to call... that is the question... I would wait until Friday and if he asked why just say that in view of past issues with "smothering" you erred on the side of caution and let him have his space. If he wants to hear from you sooner, he CAN CALL.

Krs
Nov 10, 2006, 08:12 AM
A relationship is a mutual thing within every respect...

I don't know why who should call when should be such a big deal. You have to both learn that if 1 day you call, then the other day HE should call...

On this particular occasion I would wait to call him, if he asks why didn't u call earlier, you can always say well you have my number :) ;)