Anyway, so the guys and I being really, really, really bored, waiting for a friend to bring us some beta keys to the new Heroes of Newerth, started watching the "Notebook". And it got to the scene when they are in the old decreipid house about to have sex and then the main Actress (frantic as she was) asked him "Did you plan this?".

Now for some reason and since we've all been there and ALL of our girls said the same thing when it came around for us to do the deed with the ones we love... anyway

So the question be.. because we all asked this... Why do women always ask this question?

Because the truth of the matter is... its never planned.. ever... we are as clueless as you when it happens...

Now I'm thinking... because we don't understand because most of us except for 1 or 2 are hopeless romantic types that don't hit it and quit it.. so I'm guessing women just think we are going to hit it and quit it?


In before "hit it and quit it".

Not all guys plan it but some guys do.

I guess some women ask, "did you plan this" to see if they can trust you or something. Maybe it's because we want to feel assured that you love us for us and not because we have a vagina you can insert your penis in.

I don't ask that question because, I know what's going to go "down" and because I can say no if I didn't want to have sex at that point in time.


..that's just what I think

Sarah

Try reading this sticky: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/parenting/having-children-before-you-ready-399072.html

Whether you're a guy or a girl, it's better to be sure before you take that step, because there can be consequences that you might not be able to handle together.

Maybe it feels romantic to ask? As a woman, if I asked the question and depend on what is said by man, if would make me feel special and feel romantic.