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wishing mommy
Nov 13, 2009, 08:54 AM
Does anyone know where I can look to find a seragent mother. I have been trying to get pregnant for 2 years and have lost 3 babies I need help someone please help me I am due to get married in 5 days and this would complete our family:confused:

J_9
Nov 13, 2009, 08:55 AM
I think you mean a surrogate mother.

Why don't you get married first?

What has your doctor said about your inability to carry a baby to term?

wishing mommy
Nov 13, 2009, 09:01 AM
The doctors have told me that my placenta is not attaching to the uterus wall or something of that matter I am going to get married first but I am just checking my options ahead of time. Do you know what I mean

sunshinewoman
Nov 18, 2009, 06:03 AM
I was in a similar situation as far as getting pregnnt was. We had been trying for years and tried all sort of fertility treatments, which all failed. We now have a surrogate mother who is 14 weeks pregnant with a donor egg and my husbands sperm. So biologically not my child until adoption takes place.
We didn't find her, she found us. Since she is a very close friend of ours and has known of our problems for a very long time. It was her decision to approach us and since she already has children of her own we overjoyously accepted her offer.
Before that we had contacted "Canada Adopts" for information on different agencies for Surrogates. All in all there are a ton of adoption agencies worldwide, and 90% of them either deal with Surrogacy through themselves or have a contact they can provide you with.
The only thing I can say is after you've gotten married and settled back in after your honeymoon to start emailing agencies with your husband. 9 times out of 10 they will provide you with free information in hopes you will utilize their agency.
Good luck! And don't be discouraged. It can be a lengthy process and there are a lot of ups and downs. But keep at it, it's the most rewarding thing once it happens for you!