Hey thanks so much for listning!

Well, me and this guy josh have had a thing for while and finally We started hanging out a little bit. Well It is my best friends boyfriends best friend. ( haha get it?) anyway Josh has told jake ( my friends boyfriend) that he likes me and wants to date me. Well I had sex with him on Saturday ( don't ask me why) and I don't regret it at all. In fact it made me super happy! And Even better he told jake lots of things like he realllly likes me and wants to date me sooooo bad.. and that I am such a good person exc. He is the sweet shy type though.. and I know I would have to call him to get back in touch.. which I want! He talks to jake but hasn't called me! I finally texted him today.. but no reply. The thing is we talked so much before we had sex.. clearifying that this is not a one night stand.. and that we will hang out and talk after.. and possibly start dating. I just don't get it. He tells other people he likes me.. but he won't call me! I am 18 and he's 19. I am a senior and he's 2 years out of high school.. he is known as such a good person.. but shy. And I tried talking.. what do I do?

It could either be is very shy, and now is more shy because you had sex or it could be that you got what he wants and feels there's no need for chatting!

I don't know... how about asking him?

Well.. I am trying! Haha. And the closest I am getting is his best friend who said he really likes me and if he were to ignore me he would yell and tell him he's an idiot and such. But noo he likes me bla bla bla.. Aghhh.. to shy I tell you. I just want a phone callllll :rolleyes:

Well if you know she is so shy then why don't you pick the phone and surprise him yourself ;)

Sometimes guys like to wait a while before they call up a girl, could be anywhere from a few days to a couple weeks but this guy in particular could just be incredibly shy so it may be time to pull a rare reversal move and have YOU be the one to hit him up. Yes contrary to what most girls believe you can do this rather than wait for a guy to. Since you guys rocked the casbah already you can do away with most of the b.s. and ask him straight up rather than tip-toe around it but remember not to be TOO forward or you might scare off your little shy squirrel boy.

Happy Hunting.

I think your first mistake was sleeping with him so soon. Your not a challenge to him anymore.

And do you really want someone who is so shy he can't even talk to you. For god sake he has slept with you but still is too shy to talk to you.

I agree that probably sleeping with him has contributed to this.

How about calling him. This text BS will get you no where. That is no way to get to know someone. Call him up, ask to meet him. Talk to him, get to know him. Don't go sleeping with him again.

How about going slow with him and trying to build a relationship rather than just jump into bed with someone and then starting to try and get to know them. You have in reverse. You will be a much more attractive proposition if you play a little hard to get and wait to sleep with someone until you at least have got to know them a little.

Good luck!

It could either be is very shy, and now is more shy because you had sex or it could be that you gave him what he wanted and feels there's no need for chatting now!

I don't know... how about asking him?

Forget what his friends say, if he can't answer your calls then move on. Shy or not don't wait on him ,but please go slower next time, I'd hate to see the only calls you get are booty calls.