Why is it harder to fnd someone to love you care of about you?

Greetings and WELCOME to the site, jeweljones!

I re-titled and moved your question out of Introductions to this forum topic area so that it will be more likely to be noticed and addressed by those who are best able to answer it. Your question will get noticed much more here.

Introductions is for people to introduce themselves only, and we try to not ask questions there. We would appreciate it if you would return to Introductions sometime to tell us a little bit about yourself, if you would be willing to do that.

Concerning your question - I'm having trouble understanding what you're wanting to know. If you would elaborate about it some, that would be helpful.

Thanks!

Jewel Im wondering the same dam question, when you figure it out you let me know.

Happy people attract people,confident people attract people,that's the formula.

If your not happy within yourself,you won't be happy in a relationship,because only you can provide a constant for yourself,if you rely on someone else to provide your happiness,and emotional wellbeing,you will always be disappointed and find fault...

Redhead is right. You shouldn't "look" for love. It is so cliché, I know, but it works trust me. I didn't search for love when I went out with my ex, and it seems when I'm the most busy and not doing anything, that I get a lot of attention from girls. The thing is you need to put all the assets in your favor though. Dress well, take care of yourselves, go to the gym, be confident, build an interesting life and a career and start volunteering or an activity. You'll see you will attract girls in no time.

You will find domeone when your not looking so until then go out and have fun.