My girlfriend just broke with me after a year. She said she feels like her life is getting too serious too fast and has never really lived the single life. I love her more than I've ever loved anyone else. She makes me super happy. It would absolutely devastate me if she did anything with another guy, even if it is just flirting. She also said that our relationship is kind of getting dull because when we're together we have a lot of sex, but we're kind of far apart now and she feels like we have nothing to talk about except the same old . I still feel like we are perfect for each other though because we both find stupid stuff funny and know everything about each other. I want things to go ack to how they were when we first started dating. What should I do?

For her, the "in love" feeling has fizzled out- not only that but sex could've very well ruined your relationship. I'm not sure how old you are, but you need to pump the brakes. Have you not heard that sex makes things complicated? This could be fatal to a relationship in the making- and you've only been together a year.
This girl is bored- you guys have sex a lot, and it's not that interesting anymore. Why? Because sex doesn't satisfy! If you base your relationship after only a year, on sex, you will end up with this situation. Culture tells us to date and have sex with people and when that one starts to get boring, you just move onto the next one. You say you love her? How much? Enough to have sex with her, or enough to be committed to her for life? If you're thinking, "well, isn't commitment for life a little much?" Then you aren't committed.
I can't tell you how to get your girlfriend back, but I can tell you this: If your relationship doesn't work out- save sex till marriage.

Thanks for the feedback. I'm 18 by the way. I know the whole philosophy thing about sex, but that isn't our whole relationship I don't think. I still love just holding her and doing little things. I am very committed to answer that question. I told her thatd id love her forever and she used to say it right back, but now she questions everything. Also, she was the one crying on the phone for hours while she was breaking up with me. I don't know what to make of this? Should I keep trying to talk to her or will that only make her feel more smothered? I'm assuming that I should just give her space?

Let her know how you feel and see how she responds to it.

If she drifts away, it's out of your control. Feelings can't be forced, it has to happen naturally.

Giving her space is definitely not a bad idea. Let her sort things out and if she wants to make this relationship work, she will find out.

You've grown extremely dependent on her and it will make you very needy. Focus on doing your own thing and learning to be more independent.

My girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago because she felt like our relationship was getting too serious and she feels that she's too young to be feeling the pressure of a long term relationship. I've tried telling her that we can slow it down, etc. I'm not even living in the same town as her anymore and I'd only be seeing her once a month or so, but I can fluctuate. She knows exactly how I feel and she even agrees that no one may love her as much I could, but she still feels like she's mapping out her whole life. I got the "its not you, its me" crap. Anyway, she said that it would be fine for me to take her out this weekend. I really want to be back together with her so I'm looking for advice on how to act or what to say when I'm with her.

Thanks for any feedback.

PS: moving on is the last thing I'd ever want. She's perfect for me.

I feel she is letting you down easy and you are not accepting it. Soon will come the I have someone else statement and you will be left alone.
I know it hurts to hear and we are blinded sometimes by the fact that we love this other person, but the truth is sometimes things just don't workout. That doesn't mean that all relationships will never work out but just indicates that this was not it for you.
I also believe that we hold on just because we do not have anyone else or cannot see ourselves without them, this is also a wrong way to go about things. I have been there where I wouldn't want to let go because I couldn't bare to see myself alone and worst what would I do without her. Yes I was young and that relationship made me realize my mistakes. Never make someone a priority in life, or make them your life, they should be a compliment to your happiness.
Time will come again when you will found someone, someone that will be better suited for you.