So I am a gay male and my exboyfriend and I were engaged for about 3 months and he then dumped me on Friday night. I feel so empty and need help to heal my heart. It aches when I try to sleep and then I can't sleep. I can't eat without getting sick and everywhere I go I am reminded about him. Either someone has his same name, or it was a place we had gone together, or we dreampt about going there. Can someone help me. My email is [email protected] or I'm me at billysbmw05 on AOL.

Bobby

I am not going to begin to try to understand a gay male relationship, but my opinion is that it is the same as a heterosexual relationship... there's no difference in emotion is there?
Being dumped is always a hard thing to go through, many people (like myself not too long ago) find it hard to go on, not to mention pointless.
The onconsulation I could possibly give is, hang in there, there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Accepting the obvious and start to move on with your life would go a long way to bringing you back to normal. Easier said than done but necessary. Time to heal and move on. Review some other break-up threads to see how others have accepted reality and gotten themselves together with time and hard work. Many have done it and so can you.