stuffluff
Oct 20, 2009, 06:32 AM
Hi, this is my first time, so bare with me! My husband and I have been together for 10yrs. I have three children, he has two. His ex committed suicide when the boys were 9 & 11. Now they are 20 and 18. The 20 yr old lives on his own, but we've had nothing but problems with him. The 18 yr old lives with us. The thing is he doesn't do anything.He just did start college and goes mon-thu 7:30-11:30. He then comes home and goes to his room and sleeps or is on the lap top. On the weekends he leaves Friday afternoon and returns Sunday night at 10pm.He has done this since he was 15 or 16. My husband has never questioned him about were he is or what he is doing. And no, he is not doing drugs. The only chore he has ever had is taking the garbage out when needed and taking it to the street twice a week, but after 10 yrs he still has to be asked. He has to be asked to do everything, he never does anything on his own. We have started a Thursday night Family Dinner where all the children need to be home and after dinner we watch a movie. Chris always starts an argument at the table and my husband always sticks up for him and talks down to me in front of everybody. Chris is anti social and I believe wants to start something all the time, but it is draining me. Any help is appreciated!