I'm 16 years old boyfriend who lost her first love because we live in different towns but I really love him sometimes when I talk to him after the break up he seems nice another while mean does anybody know what does this mean ?:) :confused: or if anyone know how can I get him back I know that he used the different towns as an excuse because he always use it when he want to break you with me ( he broke up with me like 3 times and each time he beg to get back 2gether) but this time I don't think that he will do that so please I need som help

There is no set way. If its meant to be it will be. Enjoy yourself in the meantime

Have a look at some other threads:
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Well, first of all, at 16, holding a relationship, and living in different towns can be difficult. It sounds like he may just be confused, that's all I can figure to explain why he would be nice sometimes then mean another.

Also, what are you looking for in the relationship? If you're looking for a stable relationship, this may not be the guy (3 break ups).

I know it's easier said then done, but try to move on. Look for what you want.

Good luck,
And keep us updated

If he is mean sometimes, you should not try to patch things up.

It's hard losing someone, you can feel lonely, especially at first. But he does not sound like the right guy. Start focusing on making some new friends who like to do the same things you do. It will be hard at first to get over him, but then much easier as time goes by. Don't look to find another boyfriend right away. Instead, find ways to feel happier as just you.

Can you talk to your friends, parents or siblings at all? Or are things not so good that way? (I ask this because I can't imagine why else you would want to go back to someone who is EVER mean to you.)