I broke up with her. And I'm as lonely as . She was heartbroken at first but seems to be getting over it. Ive done a silly thing and deleted her number ( or have I ) . As we were in contact and I kept telling her I missed her. I don't think its fair because she keeps writing back conversational stuff and mentioning that she misses me but putting on a brave face. I can't differentiate between the loneliness or if I want to be back with her. The last thing I want is to get back with her and then realise I don't want to be with her again as that's just not fair. Any advice.

Yes, we have lots of advice on here if you haven't already looked around. Look at some of our stickies on here about no contact rules and getting back to yourself now that you're single.

No contact is a must if you want to get over this girl. If you don't trust yourself around her you have to remove her from your life maybe you need time to think things over, that's OK, but do it without her.. once a few weeks go by you will be seeing a lot more clearly as to why you should or shouldn't be with her.

But in the meantime of all that thinking, get out there and start a new hobby, and make new friends.. discover yourself once again.. there are plenty of fish out in the sea, remember that!

Remember the reason you split up with her to begin with... If you guys had a healthy relationship there's going to be things you miss/regret. But like plonak said, read the stickies, find some new hobbies, make new friends, and you'll be A OK!

Good luck bud