So me and my mom moved in with him and my step dad about 2 months ago. Well my step brother (Kevin) can be a complete jerk sometimes and then other times be really nice, and start getting a little too touchy.

Well when he's in a really good mood, like I said he'll get really touchy feely, and it almost seems like he's flirting with me. And sometimes he'll try to talk me into drinking with him. He's technically not even supposed to be drinking, because I don't even think he's legal yet. But I've decided that's none of my business so I won't say anything.

And when he's not on his good side, he thinks that for some reason he can tell me what to do, and if I don't do it then he gets really aggressive. Like he'll hit me, push me, kick me, and one time he's even choked me because I told him to get out of my room.

I threatened him that I would tell his dad next time he touched me, and he keeps telling me his dad will take his side over mine, and that I would ruin their marriage by telling, because obviously my mom would take my side. And I would feel really guilty if anything bad happened between her and my step dad because of me. So now I really need some advice on what you guys think I should do. Do you think my step brother was right? Whose side do you think my step dad would take? I'm really confused about all this, so I could really use someone else's opinion. Thanks

Btw: Kevin's 19 & I'm 14

You should tell your mother immediately!
Kevin is trying to scare you and his father will not take his side,for being a bully and a predator.
See if you can send him an email about what he has done and get his reply and save it.This way you can prove what has happened.

I would say:

I am sending you this email about our conversation because I am hoping we can talk about this calmly.I do not think this would break up our parents ,why do you think that?
I don't want to fight with you but I do not think it is fair of you to kick me and choke me.
I don't know why you want me to drink with you either,why do you?

I would not mention the touch feeley in the email as he may get suspicious but I would tell your mother.

Hello,time to put a halt to his gallop...

Tell your mother.

You sound like a smart girl,be smart now,you posted for help on your situation,heed the advice,tell your mother.

I would say:


I would not mention the touch feeley in the email as he may get suspicious but I would tell your mother.

Thanks that's actually a really good idea. Wouldn't have thought of it, but I'll try it and see what happens

hello,time to put a halt to his gallop...

tell your mother.

you sound like a smart girl,be smart now,you posted for help on your situation,heed the advice,tell your mother.

Well that's what I was going to do, I'm just worried about how it will turn out