View Full Version : Can't feel me
soonersfan
Sep 22, 2009, 06:17 PM
My boyfriend can't seem to feel me orgasm but can tell by my facial exspressions. Help me what can I do?:rolleyes:
letmetellu
Sep 22, 2009, 06:31 PM
It really does not matter if he can "Feel" you when you have an orgasm as long as he knows it is happening.
He may can feel it but just does not know what he is feeling for. For me I feel the tightening around my penis and her body stiffening.
Synnen
Sep 22, 2009, 07:52 PM
Why does HE need to feel YOUR orgasm?
He gets to feel his own! That should be enough!
Gemini54
Sep 22, 2009, 08:10 PM
I don't quite see why this is a problem. If he can tell by your face and you're both enjoying yourselves, why is this an issue for him? Maybe you just both need to relax and stop 'judging' the experience.
bronzebabe
Sep 22, 2009, 08:42 PM
I agree with the others. Really, he doesn't "need" to feel your orgasm. As long as You feel it, he should be happy and You should be happy.
Alty
Sep 22, 2009, 09:13 PM
What? It shouldn't matter. He's lucky that you're having an orgasm, he wants to feel it too? Really?
shazamataz
Sep 23, 2009, 06:58 AM
If he is worried that you are faking it then perhaps there are some insecurity issues that need to be addressed.
Otherwise it doesn't matter if he cannot feel when you have an orgasm.
Sometime my partner can 'feel' it when I do from the muscles contracting, other times he can't feel anything... does he care?
No.
He just needs to hurry and have his own so I can roll over and go to sleep :p
stevetcg
Sep 23, 2009, 07:35 AM
When you orgasm, bonk him on the head. Then he'll feel it.
Otherwise... don't worry about it. If you both enjoy it, that's all that really matters.