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vickieodongoz
Sep 14, 2009, 11:57 AM
Well,I meet this girl in university few two weeks ago.she kind of made the move first,she even asked me for my email,we exchnaged numbers and she even suggested we go for drinks soon.we went for coffee date it was so great that she even escoted me to mu train station after the first date.we hang out together the following day and we went for a walk in the beach.we had fun hold hands and had coffee together.she show me around even she offered to give me her car to drive.on Friday she went out for a party with another guy whom she says is a good friend.we meet today with her and we went to the beach,she and sat down in a towel that she had brought with her.I decided to let her know what I feel for her.I told her I like her so much and I have feelings for her.she say she want us to be friends.I told her my feelings can't allow us to be just friends.she say may be I should give myself time then I will allow myself to be just friends with her.she say am so kind and she saw it on the first time she looked in my eyes.but when she says we should be friends she called me with the name of that guy she went out with the previous night.she says she want us to be friends because she has not find anyone she love yet.or anyone she feels like loving.I told her I don't want to see her but she said we should be friends.when I was leaving without a hug she asked me not to leave with a hug.what can I do?should I be friends or move on.I have strong feelings for her.

kctiger
Sep 14, 2009, 12:01 PM
How do you have strong feelings for someone you barely know? Maybe what she means is she wants to take her time and get to know you. Why is it you decided to profess such deep feelings to her? How old are you?

vickieodongoz
Sep 14, 2009, 12:28 PM
How do you have strong feelings for someone you barely know? Maybe what she means is she wants to take her time and get to know you. Why is it you decided to profess such deep feelings to her? How old are you?

Am 23 years and she is 21 years.

kctiger
Sep 14, 2009, 12:30 PM
So why not just enjoy getting to know her without forcing your feelings on her. What you two have is clearly a connection, so just go with the flow... right?

vickieodongoz
Sep 14, 2009, 01:02 PM
So why not just enjoy getting to know her without forcing your feelings on her. What you two have is clearly a connection, so just go with the flow...right?

Thanks .sounds great

kctiger
Sep 14, 2009, 01:03 PM
thanx .sounds great

Remember, just relax and have fun. Have FUN!

talaniman
Sep 14, 2009, 01:49 PM
Generally if things go well after dating, and getting to know each other, after 6 months or so, then you can confess your feelings, and be better received.

Your lucky she didn't think you were some kind of psycho.