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Mary4443
Sep 9, 2009, 08:19 AM
I just wanted to know what some of you think. DO YOU Believe if you are meant to
Be with someone you will eventually end up with them. Even if the strangest things might
Have happened between you.Or how every long it might take...

kctiger
Sep 9, 2009, 08:24 AM
I don't think that there is only one person out there for you, that is just not logical. I believe if you take care of yourself and build a life you enjoy, the right person will come along, but I don't believe there is ever just one right person.

amicon
Sep 9, 2009, 08:40 AM
I don't think so.if we were to put our lives on hold waiting for a specific person to walk into or back into our lives we d be putting our lives on hold living in a dream or rather a nightmare.as we mature and grow to love ourselves we are more ready and able to meet a person who s a mature loving partner.

fishburn7
Sep 9, 2009, 09:24 AM
I think so... but then again I'm a hopeless romantic, there a bunch of people out there that are about 80% of what you want. But I kind of believe there's just that one person that is 100% perfect for you... if I found out that it wasn't true I think I wouldn't be able to love again, and I'd be a very very depressed person,

Also there's no putting life on hold to wait for them.. if there's only one they'll just end up with you

I wish
Sep 9, 2009, 09:38 AM
That sounds dangerously close to "false hope", i.e. "meant to be".

There's too many other contributing factors, especially timing. If the two of you feel the same way about each other, then you just need to work things out and you can be together. The only reasons you would wait is because you don't know each other well enough or factors that you allow to get in the way, such as family and religion. Otherwise, if you aren't together, it usually means the two people involved don't really feel the same way about each other and person is having "false hope" by believing that they are "meant to be" one day.

talaniman
Sep 9, 2009, 09:39 AM
I'm a realist, and think that if your meant to be together you will be. But for how long?? Who knows.

I think the bottom line is, live your life and see who is in it, who leaves, and who stays.

In time things get clearer.

amicon
Sep 9, 2009, 10:37 AM
But you do get to kiss a number of frogs!:-)

redhed35
Sep 9, 2009, 10:48 AM
The amount of times I thought a boy/man was the one..

If I had a penny for every guy who thought I was his one.. yeah yeah move on buddy.

No,I don't think there is just one person out there for everyone.

However,I do believe that you can form strong bonds with a particular person,if might be your mother,brother,or child... love is relative... the good kind usually sticks around for a long time.(as tal has said,wise words)

A partner relationship is not the be all and end all.. took me a few years to reach that conclusion.

overayear
Sep 9, 2009, 10:52 AM
I believe that is a true statement. If you are meant to be together you will be. I am not saying to hold of and wait for them because to be honest I don't think you will find each other again if you were to do that. If you live your life and your life ends up back in their path and vice versa then it was meant to be. Don't force it, live your life as if they are not coming back.

itried
Sep 9, 2009, 10:54 AM
Yes, I do. Everyone in Narnia lives happily ever after with the person they were meant to be with. You should come visit in the autumn. It's beautiful, really.

zippit
Sep 9, 2009, 11:04 AM
I believe it CAN happen but I also believe that it might get boring,I'm not sure I want someone 100&#37; perfect for me I like a good challenge and well lets face it I like to argue as well.I have also seen couples "PERFECT" for each other sleep in separate bedrooms never show affection<my first set of in laws>stayed married for 30 some years,than other couples butt heads all the time but are madly in love..

ohsohappy
Sep 9, 2009, 11:10 AM
No, This is a hollywood thing. A real, true relationship requires a ton of effort, and it can be very hard. If it doesn't work out, then Something went wrong. There is no "menat to be" If you know how to treat the one you love, then chances are things will turn out the way you want. But also be aware that they may not be in the same place in the relationship, and therefore might not have all the same feelings. OTHis, and people can change. If you truly want to spend the rest of your life with someone, NEVER stop getting to know them. You could become strangers before you realize it.

Do not take the relationship for granted just because it's going well at a certain point. That's just when people can get cocky and things can go badly.
ALWAYS work hard.