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N0help4u
Sep 9, 2009, 05:06 AM
I looked up sites on the NHS and how they with hold treatment and so forth.

I also believe this happens in the US. I have neighbors that this same thing has happened to.

Daughter claims father wrongly placed on controversial NHS end of life scheme - Telegraph (http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/healthnews/6156076/Daughter-claims-father-wrongly-placed-on-controversial-NHS-end-of-life-scheme.html)

So you really want to believe the health system is out for your best interest?

NeedKarma
Sep 9, 2009, 05:27 AM
It's obvious there is a current problem. I am always shocked at the sheer amount of american posters on the Health boards that are asking questions when they should be in front of a doctor.

tomder55
Sep 9, 2009, 06:23 AM
Even if that is so ,why would you not attempt to find out as much about your condition as possible. Everything the doctor tells me or my family gets researched by us anyway.

tomder55
Sep 9, 2009, 06:28 AM
The Daily Mail has written about a mother who tried to get intensive care treatment for her newborn preemie because the baby was born 2 days early .

They ignored her pleas and allegedly told her they were following national guidelines that babies born before 22 weeks should not be given medical treatment. …
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2009/09/09/article-1211950-06575B62000005DC-351_468x300.jpg

That's the NHS for you.

J_9
Sep 9, 2009, 06:31 AM
Tom, that link is to a picture only.

Now, talking about babies, that's up my alley. Babies born before 24 weeks are not considered viable. Even at 24 weeks IF they survive, they live with a multitude of problems that are permanent and irreversible.

tomder55
Sep 9, 2009, 06:39 AM
Oops try this

Premature baby 'left to die' by doctors after mother gives birth just two days before 22-week care limit | Mail Online (http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1211950/Premature-baby-left-die-doctors-mother-gives-birth-just-days-22-week-care-limit.html)

Another baby in born under the same conditions has so far survived .
Born at just 22 weeks - Amilla is not yet allowed home | Mail Online (http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-437236/Born-just-22-weeks--Amilla-allowed-home.html)



She has suffered respiratory and digestive problems, as well as a mild brain hemorrhage, but doctors believe the health concerns will not have major long-term effects.
"Her prognosis is excellent," said Dr. Paul Fassbach, who has cared for Amillia since her second day.

spitvenom
Sep 9, 2009, 06:48 AM
Babies born before 24 weeks are not considered viable. Even at 24 weeks IF they survive, they live with a multitude of problems that are permanent and irreversible.

J_9 when a baby is born before 24 weeks and are not considered viable does the hospital not do anything to help the babies? I have to admit I am totally ignorant to what happens at hospitals with babies.

tomder55
Sep 9, 2009, 06:53 AM
If the women were in the States the doctors would not have refused care because of some central planner's guidelines. Do we want to subject everyone in the country to triage rules to contain costs ?

J_9
Sep 9, 2009, 06:54 AM
J_9 when a baby is born before 24 weeks and are not considered viable does the hospital not do anything to help the babies? I have to admit I am totally ignorant to what happens at hospitals with babies.

The standard of care in most hospitals is to do nothing. Now, remember that we have a two week window either way. The baby could actually be 20 weeks OR 24 weeks. Gestation is not an exact science.

I have yet to see a 22 weeker, that survived, live without ANY permanent complications. Most times there will be lung problems, mental retardation, etc. At 22 weeks the baby has hardly finished "baking."

Here is a pic of a 22 week gestation baby.
http://www.foxnews.com/images/263519/2_21_tiny_baby1.jpg

The prognosis is rarely good.

J_9
Sep 9, 2009, 06:56 AM
If the women were in the States the doctors would not have refused care because of some central planner's guidelines. Do we want to subject everyone in the country to triage rules to contain costs ?

Again, the standard of care is 24 weeks. Now not all hospitals go by this. Some go over and above the standard by trying to keep younger gestational babies alive. But isn't this playing God?

tomder55
Sep 9, 2009, 06:56 AM
The baby that survived was born in Miami . Clearly she would've been sentenced to death in England.

J_9
Sep 9, 2009, 06:59 AM
Most of Miami's hospitals go above the national standard of care. They have some great NICU's there. But again, isn't it playing God? This baby is going to have a multitude of permanent problems as it grows. The doctor can't say for sure right now if she is going to be fine. He doesn't know that. It will be later in life, around the age of 5 or so, when the mental functions will be detected.

tomder55
Sep 9, 2009, 07:00 AM
But isn't this playing God?

Not at all. There was a time when it was universally understood that humans could not break the 4 minute mile . Now we know with improved technology and knowledge it's possible .

These guidelines are a cost determination and nothing more. Would the mother of the babie denied gladly paid any price and sacrifice for her baby ? Of course ;so the factor involved is a cold calculted "public cost " . That is the point . The mother and child were not given the option.

ETWolverine
Sep 9, 2009, 07:01 AM
It's obvious there is a current problem. I am always shocked at the sheer amount of american posters on the Health boards that are asking questions when they should be in front of a doctor.

So... you are against people doing research about their illnesses?

Better that they should remain ignorant so that the government can make decisions for them without their complaints.

That's not how we do things in America.

Elliot

tomder55
Sep 9, 2009, 07:03 AM
The prognosis is rarely good

What is the prognosis of lung cancer ? Not very good is it. Does any hospital deny chemo and radiation treatment because of that fact ?

spitvenom
Sep 9, 2009, 07:05 AM
When I was a kid I remember my Aunt having a baby long before the due date. And now that you put that picture up of this baby it just brought a flood of memories back from when I was like 9 years old. That is exactly what my cousin looked like in the one picture they have of her.

I remember my mom being upset because the hospital wouldn't do anything to help her. But like you said odds are they won't survive. Do they ever try to save any of those babies? Or are the health problems later on in life so great that they usually don't?

ETWolverine
Sep 9, 2009, 07:06 AM
Most of Miami's hospitals go above the national standard of care. They have some great NICU's there. But again, isn't it playing God? This baby is going to have a multitude of permanent problems as it grows. The doctor can't say for sure right now if she is going to be fine. He doesn't know that. It will be later in life, around the age of 5 or so, when the mental functions will be detected.

I think it would be playing god to say "This kid is going to have problems, and so to avoid those problems (and the monetary costs to society), we're going to let the baby die."

Giving the baby a fighting chance at life and leaving the baby's future in G-d's hands is the one way to guarantee that the doctors AREN'T playing god. If the doctors do everything they can to help the baby survive and the baby still dies, then we KNOW that it was G-d's will that the baby not survive. If the doctors give up and the baby dies, we don't know if that was G-d's will or just a consequence of poor care.

I say give the baby that fighting chance.

Elliot

J_9
Sep 9, 2009, 07:12 AM
The mother and child were not given the option.
But does the mother know the price of the option? Is that mother properly informed and prepared to care for a baby/child/adolescent/adult that will most likely need a lifetime of medical care? Does the mother understand the costs involved? Does she completely understand that her child most likely will be autistic or mentally retarded, have a PEG tube... I could go on and on.

Most mothers that I deal with speak from their emotions... "save my baby at all costs," but don't know the ramifications of their decision. They don't believe us when we run through the gamut of problems that they will have to live with.

Now what I mean by playing God is that at 22 weeks the heart is not fully developed. By this I mean that the ductus arteriosis rarely closes at birth, leaving the child with possible multiple heart surgeries. To avoid surgeries drugs have to be given, but this is not always a cure.

J_9
Sep 9, 2009, 07:15 AM
I think it would be playing god to say "This kid is going to have problems, and so to avoid those problems (and the monetary costs to society), we're going to let the baby die."

Giving the baby a fighting chance at life and leaving the baby's future in G-d's hands is the one way to guarantee that the doctors AREN'T playing god. If the doctors do everything they can to help the baby survive and the baby still dies, then we KNOW that it was G-d's will that the baby not survive. If the doctors give up and the baby dies, we don't know if that was G-d's will or just a consequence of poor care.

I say give the baby that fighting chance.

Elliot

I totally agree with you Elliot. The baby does deserve a fighting chance, but do the parents know what they are in for if the baby lives?

I know parents like this. While they are happy that their babies survived (one that I know is now 9 years old) they are dealing with mental retardation, hospitalizations every winter because the lungs were not fully developed at birth, etc. They say they love their child, but if they had it all to do over again, they would not want their child to suffer the way he does now.

tomder55
Sep 9, 2009, 07:18 AM
Yes no doubt if the child survives it will have a challenging life. Sarah Palin understood the challenges her baby would have and opted to have her child knowing that.

I don't know if the mother was fully informed . All I know is that regardless the choice was taken out of her hands.

The ironic thing is that in the US we are more likely to take a chance on the life of premies . As a result the WHO says that we have a lower infant survival rate and used those numbers against us in their ranking . But I think we make the correct moral choice .

ETWolverine
Sep 9, 2009, 07:23 AM
I totally agree with you Elliot. The baby does deserve a fighting chance, but do the parents know what they are in for if the baby lives?

Well, they certainly don't know if they are never given the option in the first place.


I know parents like this. While they are happy that their babies survived (one that I know is now 9 years old) they are dealing with mental retardation, hospitalizations every winter because the lungs were not fully developed at birth, etc. They say they love their child, but if they had it all to do over again, they would not want their child to suffer the way he does now.

I have a niece who is one of those babies. I know the costs. I know the pain of the parents. I know the pain of that baby's siblings. And I still say that it is a decision for the parents and for G-d, not the NHS or even the medical staff.

Give the kid the fighting chance that he or she deserves as a human being.

Elliot

J_9
Sep 9, 2009, 07:25 AM
We have one of the highest infant mortality rates in the world. Why? Most of it is lack of education on the mother's part, little or no prenatal care, and believing that a fetus is viable at any stage of development. These are all costly mistakes that add to our healthcare bill.

Remember, I am a labor and delivery nurse, so I am all for the baby. It's all about the baby with me and I will do whatever it takes to have a healthy baby no matter the cost.

I have learned though, to take my emotional hat off and put my scientific hat on when it comes to early gestation.

I am not a fan of Wiki... but this explains a lot.


Viability
Stages in prenatal development, showing viability and point of 50% chance of survival at bottom. Weeks and months numbered by gestation.

The lower limit of viability is approximately five months gestational age, and usually later.[31]

About 20 to 35 percent of babies born at 23 weeks of pregnancy survive, while about 50 to 70 percent of babies born at 24 to 25 weeks, and more than 90 percent born at 26 to 27 weeks, survive
Human fetus, age unknown

According to The Developing Human, viability is defined as the ability of fetuses to survive in the extrauterine environment.[32]

There is no sharp limit of development, age, or weight at which a fetus automatically becomes viable. [32] According to data years 2003-2005, 20 to 35 percent of babies born at 23 weeks of gestation survive, while 50 to 70 percent of babies born at 24 to 25 weeks, and more than 90 percent born at 26 to 27 weeks, survive.[33] It is rare for a baby weighing less than 500 gm to survive.[32]

When such babies are born, the main causes of perinatal mortality is that the respiratory system and the central nervous system are not completely differentiated.[32] If given expert postnatal care, some fetuses weighing less than 500 gm may survive, being are referred to as extremely low birth weight or immature infants.[32] Preterm birth is the most common cause of perinatal mortality, causing almost 30 percent of neonatal deaths.[34]

During the past several decades, neonatal care has improved with advances in medical science, and therefore the limit of viability has moved earlier.[35] As of 2006, the two youngest children to survive premature birth are thought to be James Elgin Gill (born on 20 May 1987 in Ottawa, Canada, at 21 weeks and 5 days gestational age),[36][37] and Amillia Taylor (born on 24 October 2006 in Miami, Florida, at 21 weeks and 6 days gestational age).[38][39] Both children were born just under 20 weeks from fertilization, or a few days past the midpoint of an average full-term pregnancy. Despite their premature births, both developed into healthy children.

Darn, the table did not show up. You can see it here... File:Prenatal development table.svg - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Prenatal_development_table.svg)

tomder55
Sep 9, 2009, 07:31 AM
You did not answer my reply about others who get treated even though their prognosis is grim . Why should they be treated and not the premie who ;if they survive ,have a chance for a long productive life ?
Again I ask... is the triage approach to cost containment the best we can do ?

Here is Dr Death Emanuel's chart
Note that he too determines that the young ones should not get to utilize the resources .

http://pajamasmedia.com/richardfernandez/files/2009/07/rahm.jpg

NeedKarma
Sep 9, 2009, 07:36 AM
Tom,
Do you have a link to a government site that has context with that chart? Pajamamedia isn't a good reference.

J_9
Sep 9, 2009, 07:42 AM
You did not answer my reply about others who get treated even though their prognosis is grim . Why should they be treated and not the premie who ;if they survive ,have a chance for a long productive life ?
Again I ask ....is the triage approach to cost containment the best we can do ?

Here is Dr Death Emmanuel's chart
Note that he too determines that the young ones should not get to utilize the resources .

http://pajamasmedia.com/richardfernandez/files/2009/07/rahm.jpg

Sorry Tom, I missed that. Even though the progosis is grim, a full term baby gets treated because all of it's organs are developed and should be functioning. The preemie gets treated, depending on gestational age and the level of care the local hospitals provide, not every hospital has a NICU.

I work in a level one nursery at a VERY rural hospital. I not only deliver babies, but also work in the nursery and postpartum units. Level one nurseries are only able to care for full term babies, some preemies, but none under the gestational age of 33 weeks. We cannot have a child on a respirator, nor can we have a neonate who is on IV medications. All of these babies get shipped out to hospitals that have NICUs.

Some of the best NICUs are in California, Florida and New York, there are others, I'm just using these as examples.

Also, Elliott, I am not here to argue, that is the last thing I want to do... please don't think I am trying to start an argument with you, quite the opposite. I believe that this is a great topic of concern as well as good discussion.

I ship every laboring woman out who is below 35 weeks gestation if she is stable. If she is not stable we call The Wing who flies to our hospital in wait for the baby.

tomder55
Sep 9, 2009, 07:48 AM
NK ; It was in his Lancet article he published . PJ media was just a convenient place for me to link because I have problems posting stuff from PDF .

But here's a try

http://www.ncpa.org/pdfs/PIIS0140673609601379.pdf.

excon
Sep 9, 2009, 07:50 AM
You did not answer my reply about others who get treated even though their prognosis is grim . Why should they be treated and not the premie who ;if they survive ,have a chance for a long productive life ? Hello tom:

You're not suggesting, are you, that private health insurance would pay for any treatment the premie needs, are you?? Nahhh... You wouldn't be saying that, because it AIN'T true. The little tyke has to go in front of the insurance company "death panel". I'd give him a 50/50 chance of surviving THAT board.

excon

NeedKarma
Sep 9, 2009, 07:52 AM
NK ; It was in his Lancet article he published . PJ media was just a convenient place for me to link because I have problems posting stuff from PDF .

But here's a try

http://www.ncpa.org/pdfs/PIIS0140673609601379.pdf.Got it, thanks. Has that paper been accepted as a position paper for the health care reform?

tomder55
Sep 9, 2009, 07:54 AM
Sorry Tom, I missed that. Even though the progosis is grim, a full term baby gets treated because all of it's organs are developed and should be functioning. The preemie gets treated, depending on gestational age and the level of care the local hospitals provide, not every hospital has a NICU.


Actually the example I gave was a lung cancer patient . They face real long odds of survival .And yet they receive radiation and chemo treatment until it is proven that the treatments will not work .
You see where the concerns are when panels ,commissions etc are making these determinations ? The mother of that child would've gladly spent every penny she owned for the chance . The NHS did not give her the option.

J_9
Sep 9, 2009, 07:57 AM
Hello tom:

You're not suggesting, are you, that private health insurance would pay for any treatment the premie needs, are you???? Nahhh.... You wouldn't be saying that, because it AIN'T true. The little tyke has to go in front of the insurance company "death panel". I'd give him a 50/50 chance of surviving THAT board.

excon

Most of these women don't even have private insurance. They depend on Medicaid. Us and our tax dollars.

We are really generalizing here that all these babies are born to healthy women. While micro preemies are born to healthy mothers, many of these micro preemies are born to drug addicted mothers. Drugs cause an increasing number of premature labor... placenta abruption is caused by cocaine and crack for example and is deadly to mother and baby if an emergency C-Section is not performed within 15-30 minutes. These babies are going to have problems WiTHOUT being preemies, full term crack/coke babies have problems of their own. Then we have FAS (fetal alcohol syndrome) causes premature labor and delivery as well.

tomder55
Sep 9, 2009, 07:57 AM
Got it, thanks. Has that paper been accepted as a position paper for the health care reform?
Zeke Emanuel is a key advisor to the President.He is acting as Special Advisor for Health Policy to Peter Orszag, the Director of the Office of Management and Budget .His brother is Obama's chief of staff.

J_9
Sep 9, 2009, 07:57 AM
Actually the example I gave was a lung cancer patient . They face real long odds of survival .And yet they receive radiation and chemo treatment until it is proven that the treatments will not work .
You see where the concerns are when panels ,commissions etc are making these determinations ? The mother of that child would've gladly spent every penny she owned for the chance . The NHS did not give her the option.

I am a cancer patient too. My odds were grim... 13 years ago. You can't compare apples to oranges Tom.

tomder55
Sep 9, 2009, 08:02 AM
It's not apples to oranges at all . With all due respect... Why do you deserve the care and not the baby under the logic applied under a centrally controlled "universal system " ? Do you fall within Dr. Death's chart of those worthy of saving ? Would you have accepted their conclusions without a fight ?

J_9
Sep 9, 2009, 08:07 AM
Tom. I fought. Went to 7 different doctors to get the correct diagnosis. But it IS apples to oranges. Chemo and radiation are proven to cure and/or lengthen life.

Currently, scientifically, we don't have the ability to save fetuses under a certain gestational age. We are still studying that. We can't go where no man has gone before without a little study or two. Babies are guinea pigs on a daily basis, we try this drug... if it doesn't work we try that drug... many of them are unproven. We use these babies to further our education and our science to save the lives of future babies.

Here's a good page with percentages. It's not Wiki, it's from the Preemie Survival Foundation.

Quint Boenker Preemie Survival Foundation (http://www.preemiesurvival.org/info/index.html)

excon
Sep 9, 2009, 08:28 AM
These babies are going to have problems WiTHOUT being preemies, full term crack/coke babies have problems of their own. Then we have FAS (fetal alcohol syndrome) causes premature labor and delivery as well.Hello J:

If what you're saying, is that doctors themselves ARE "death panels", then I'd agree.

excon

PS> I must apologize for my crassness above, J. Of course, throughout the entire health care system, there's LOTS of decisions made about the care of people that COULD, if you wanted to inflame people, be considered "death panels".

I certainly wouldn't refer to them as such... But, some people want to call ONE part of the PROPOSED health care system death panels, while ignoring the REAL death panels that we've already got. So, I make the comparison above simply to show how dumb some people are

tomder55
Sep 9, 2009, 08:30 AM
Currently, scientifically, we don't have the ability to save fetuses under a certain gestational age.
I gave the example of the 4 minute mile for a reason.

My sister was a long term kidney patient (no Excon she was never denied care by the insurance companies even though it was clear her illness would kill her) .

I watched the advancement of treatment of kidney patients up close and personal . When she began she had to hook up to dialysis a few times a week at a hospital for many hours.
Now the units are portable and there are many more treatment options .

All these innovations would not have occurred had they not had patients to treat. Had the "commission " decided she was not worth it then the experimental care she got would not have been developed to benefit future patients.

By trying to save babies like that; even if not successful, the doctors and hospitals learn from the effort. Over time, the success rate of saving premies goes up, and the outcomes are better.

Open heart surgury used to be a costly and risky affair. Why waste the money ? Now the surgeries are less invasive and have a higher success rate. But they are still expensive.

J_9
Sep 9, 2009, 08:31 AM
Hello J:

If what you're saying, is that doctors themselves ARE "death panels", then I'd agree.

excon

PS> I must apologize for my crassness above, J. Of course, throughout the entire health care system, there's LOTS of decisions made about the care of people that COULD, if you wanted to inflame people, be considered "death panels".

I certainly wouldn't refer to them as such... But, some people wanna call ONE part of the PROPOSED health care system death panels, while ignoring the REAL death panels that we've already got. So, I make the comparison above simply to show how dumb some people are

I'm all with you Excon!! You're always crass... no need to apologize. I understand you. ;) JK

J_9
Sep 9, 2009, 08:39 AM
By trying to save babies like that; even if not successful, the doctors and hospitals learn from the effort. Over time, the success rate of saving premies goes up, and the outcomes are better.


I AgREE!! I AgREE!! But who is going to pay for this? We have been talking about the general population. Teaching hospitals are great for this. We need this happening more in teaching hospitals where there are grants for these studies.

Currently, the insurance money, for those on private insurance, runs out before the baby is discharged home. For others, they rely on our tax dollars, Medicaid, to pay for this, or the hospital takes a cut, a big cut, as these are, in most cases, multi million dollar babies.

Have you ever had the opportunity to visit a NICU? It's heartbreaking to say the least. The technology is amazing, but not near what we need.

ETWolverine
Sep 9, 2009, 09:17 AM
We have one of the highest infant mortality rates in the world. Why? Most of it is lack of education on the mother's part, little or no prenatal care, and believing that a fetus is viable at any stage of development. These are all costly mistakes that add to our healthcare bill.

Remember, I am a labor and delivery nurse, so I am all for the baby. It's all about the baby with me and I will do whatever it takes to have a healthy baby no matter the cost.

I have learned though, to take my emotional hat off and put my scientific hat on when it comes to early gestation.

I am not a fan of Wiki...but this explains a lot.



Darn, the table did not show up. You can see it here.....File:Prenatal development table.svg - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Prenatal_development_table.svg)

Actually, J_9, the reason we have the highest infant mortality rate is because we count babies like the one pictured as having been born ALIVE, while the rest of the world counts them as never having been born at all. We fight hard to keep such children alive, while other countries (including the UK) simply don't bother trying.

We try and fail and count that in our statistics. They don't try and simply IGNORE the fact that the baby was ever born at all.

Consequently, we save more of those babies and they don't. But our medical system's often heroic efforts to save such babies are counted NEGATIVELY against us in terms of the statistics.

Our mothers are no worse educated in terms of pre-natal care than any other country. And they receive better pre-natal care than mothers in other countries, according to studies produced in Lancet. That's not the reason for the seemingly poor statistics.

Or are you prepared to argue that mothers in Colombia or Dominica are better-educated and receive better pre-natal care than the USA, resulting in better infant mortality rates... because that is what the WHO's report on Health Care would have us believe.

No, the real reason for the differences in the infant mortality statistics is that we count babies as alive that other countries do not.

In the UK, my niece (Gabby is her name) would have been considered "unborn" and never counted. And she never would have been treated. And she would have died... and she wouldn't have even become a statistic.

In the USA, she was given treatment from the moment she was born. If she had died, she would have been an infant mortality statistic. Since she lived, she's considered a financial drag on society by our President and his supporters like Zeke Emanuel, and used as an example of where we should be cutting costs.

Whereas we on the right see Gabby instead as a human being, worthy of life, and valued as a living being.

Elliot

J_9
Sep 9, 2009, 09:25 AM
Or are you prepared to argue that mothers in Colombia or Dominica are better-educated and receive better pre-natal care than the USA, resulting in better infant mortality rates... because that is what the WHO's report on Health Care would have us believe.


Elliot, I'm not here to argue anything. I'm here for a friendly discussion. No, I don't believe mothers in Columbia or Dominica are better educated. But, then again, where I live is not much different than those places.

ETWolverine
Sep 9, 2009, 10:35 AM
Elliot, I'm not here to argue anything. I'm here for a friendly discussion. No, I don't believe mothers in Columbia or Dominica are better educated. But, then again, where I live is not much different than those places.

And I'll bet that young mothers-to-be STILL get better pre-natal care than anyone in those countries.

And that is the point, isn't it? Our system is better, not because our statistical NUMBERS are better, but because our patients receive better care and experience better outcomes. That is the only true measure of a health care system's effectiveness. And we've got every other country in the world beat on patient outcomes. Yes, we spend more... but we also get more for it.

Elliot

J_9
Sep 9, 2009, 10:47 AM
You are correct Elliot, aside from the fact that not all mothers get prenatal care or adequate prenatal care.

You would be surprised to find how many mothers, after the first baby, don't think they need prenatal care because "they were pregnant before and there were no problems." Many women don't get this care because they have "been there done that" and think they know everything.

Also, with the rise of teen pregnancies, many teen girls are afraid to get care so that their parents don't find out that they are pregnant. Yes, I've seen a girl give birth in the toilet because she was in such denial she thought she had a stomach virus and never told her parents she was pregnant.

Luckily here we have choices. Now some people don't take advantage of the medical care and that's their choice. In the other third-world countries those women don't have the luxury of those choices.