Well I was in a relationship with a guy for 11 months. The only thing that was wrong was we argued a lot. So I decided I needed a small break to think things trough. He didn't like that. He would beg me to take him back. My best friend is his friend too, she text me one day saying why was I making my boyfriend miserable that that was not right. I told her he wasn't the only one hurting && she basically called me a liar saying I wasn't hurt && stuff. She was telling me she wanted me to get back with him so he would be happy && I would be upset. I stopped texting her so we were in a fight for a few days. I finally decided I would take him back after two weeks. This week was our last week of being on "break" && he was being himself again loving sweet caring. My best friend was pissing me off she never apologized I text her saying I needed an apology, she said she had nothing to apologize for. I said I may not be perfect but if I did something to her I would apologize. She then said she wanted me an my boyfriend back together so he would "stop loving her" I said "what you mean?" then she basically told me he told her he wanted sex && didn't want to wait till marriage like I did. She told him she could "help" so they agreed to meet up today to have sex. Then a couple of days later she told him no, he said he wanted to get to know her she told him she loved him like a brother && a tiny tiny bit more. I flipped out when they told me. I'm so upset I feel so betrayed I don't know what to do. He says he went along with it to see if "she was a loyal friend to me" she said "it wasn't her fault && i should be glad he would've had sex with her" && that "she knew she messed up she was sorry but she wasn't going to make herself miserable because she told him no" what should I do?! He wants me back but I don't know..

You can't trust either one of them. They have both been manipulative and disloyal. It's time to let go of both of them.

You don't need either of these emotional incompetents in your life.finish with him-he s a waste of your time.she s not a friend.friends look out for each other-they don't make arrangements to have sex with your boyfriend.walk away from their little messy lives.

Should I take my boyfriend back, even if he almost had sex with my best friend?


NO, you keep them both as far away from you as possible.