I have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years. We broke up about 3 weeks ago, and this week we decided to give our relationship another try. Yesterday we had sex when we got back together. He admitted he did not have sex or masturbate when we were apart. Well, we did have wonderful sex and he came all over me! (I hope that's okay to mention on here!)

The next morning he wakes up and has to go to the bathroom. I feel a big wet spot on the blanket and on the sheets. I smelled it and it was his . When he came back, I asked if he just came. He said yes. He dreamed of doing another woman friend from behind. I've had suspicions with this woman he's been seeing just as friends when we were apart.. and must admit she is attractive. Now that this happened, it makes me worried. He said that he's never had a wet dream in all the 5 years that we were together.

I don't know anymore.. I feel confused and I feel like maybe our sex was not good enough because this happened. I feel like maybe my body is not good enough for him...

Should I let this go? Is this normal?

I'd like to hear similar "wet dream" stories. Thanks in advance! :)

It Is completely normal, and I hope you Will let it go. Just a dream, dear.

If he did not, then I would be more worried

It Is completely normal, and I hope you Will let it go. Just a dream, dear.

Thanks for the reply! Yes I will let it go.


I still wonder if this has happened to someone else too..
The part where we had sex the night before, and then the next morning he had his wet dream.

Guys and girls too, will even image someone else when they are with the other person. Day dreaming is normal for both

Plus, I guess after having sex with you that night, he still wasn't completely "drained" since he didn't have any for 3 weeks, so maybe there was a little more juice left in him...

If he was trying to hide anything he would have just said he was thinking of you , so at least he was honest with you.

I would just let it go.

Plus, I guess after having sex with you that night, he still wasn't completely "drained" since he didn't have any for 3 weeks, so maybe there was a little more juice left in him...
Hey, thanks for replying.
3 weeks is a pretty long time considering we used to do it so much before.
You're absolutely right. I was thinking way too much into it!



If he was trying to hide anything he would have just said he was thinking of you , so at least he was honest with you.

I would just let it go.

I'm actually glad he was honest about that.
Thanks for reminding me. And thank goodness for this message board!
Yes, letting this go is what I'm definitely going to do.