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evelyn1989
Aug 17, 2009, 08:04 PM
We don’t know each other and during some college events over the vacation were thrown together. And he looks at me quite abit. When he thinks I’m unaware, when he leaves a place I’m at, he would look at me for some time. Upclose eye contact, he looks away quickly though. He came into the lift once, stood beside me and just looked at me.. and when I caught him starin at my face once and looked up, he held my eye contact for awhile before breaking off.

He’s not known to be shy or quiet. But once while I was eating alone, he sat quietly behind me. And when I was told to go help carry some chairs, he leapt up, walked with me to the room and helped me with the things. When I spoke to him though, he was rather subdued and only answered my qns but not saying anything more. =/

He doesn’t touch me or anything but when I accidentally brush past him, he doesn’t move, once at a party he was dancing beside me but didn’t do anything except look at her a few times. Then he abruptly left the place. College term has started, I doubt we share any classes but I’ve him on Facebook. Interested or what? And what should I do? Thanks!

talaniman
Aug 18, 2009, 09:14 AM
I would talk to him, and see what's on his mind. You females know how to do that without being forward.

crisluvsu731
Aug 18, 2009, 09:22 AM
I would go up to him and talk to him. I wouldn't straight out ask him if he likes you, but talking is always a good start.