Hi I am a 21 yr old just got a boyfriend and I have hair down there I am a bigger girl and I don't know what I should do I don't want to shave but I want to know if there is a gel or cream I can put on and the hair come off or what can anyone help thanks!!

There is a wax type of thing called "Nair". I suggest you try that all you do is apply the cream. Leave it on for about 5-10 minutes. Then with a sponge that comes with the kit slide it like your shaving and the hair should come off. Their will be better directions on the bottle ;)

I'm pretty sure it's inexpensive also. You can use it on your legs too.

There is no law that says you have to remove your pubic hair just because you have a boyfriend.
Some men like a big bush.
You can use various methods but often all you need to do is a simple trim with scissors.
Below is a link that may help you.

Bikini waxing - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bikini_waxing)

Mmm you don't have to do ANYTHING to make a man happy. Just to let you know. I'm a VERY big girl, and I have lots of hair down there. And my hubby LOVES it.

Now, as for hair removal down there... its difficult. I have done it once. And I won't do it again, too much of a hassle and too many painfull in grown hairs.

However, I would suggest, other than the nair hair removal that was already suggested by snippy, as embarrassing as it is, some hair removal clinics DO remove hair from your pubic area. If that would be something for you. It would be the easiest way if you can get past the embarrassment. Where as, I've had my who who exposed to 15 strangers in my labor and delivery room. Honestly if I really wanted to, I could totally see letting someone else remove the hair from my crotch ;)

Good luck hon. And if all else fails, if its your boyfriend who wants you hairless, tell HIM to do it lol

OK, I have to ask, what is a BBW? Please review the rules of this site, we do NOT permit text speak here. Please type in full words and sentences.

OK, I have to ask, what is a BBW? Please review the rules of this site, we do NOT permit text speak here. Please type in full words and sentences.

BBW = Big Beautiful Woman

Let's allow a free pass here Scott because this is a widely used term in the dating world. Many people think it sounds much nicer than some other terms. ;)

There is a wax type of thing called "Nair". I suggest you try that all you do is apply the cream. Leave it on for about 5-10 minutes. Then with a sponge that comes with the kit slide it like your shaving and the hair should come off. Their will be better directions on the bottle ;)

I'm pretty sure it's inexpensive also. You can use it on your legs too.

Be careful of this, if not used properly you can suffer from chemical burns. There are certain formulas specifically for the bikini areas.

You say you're considering doing this because you have a boyfriend - I have to ask a couple things:

1) How old are you? Reason I'm asking is that you sound young and having a boyfriend isn't a reason to suddenly decide to remove your pubic hair.

2) Have you talked with your boyfriend about this? As Artlady said (had to spread the rep Artsy), men have different preferences when it comes to a woman's pubic hair. Bottom line, you need to be comfortable with yourself before offering up your 'goodies' to a man. In the end it shouldn't matter and it's your decision to make, not his.