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qrsrcg125
Jul 28, 2009, 03:24 PM
Hi!
First of all thank you so much in advance for your help. I'm really scared right now and I just need some answers!

I am 14 years old, and 6 days ago I went to the beach with my boyfriend. I will just come out and say it, we had unprotected sex. But here's the circumstances:
A) I was on my period, which ended a day later
B) he did not ejaculate inside of me
C) he was only inside of me for a second or two and his penis did not go very far (although I've come to understand that this doesn't make much of a difference)
D) I had a tampon in, now I know that this is apparently dangerous & trust me it will never happen again.
E) and lastly I know that I can become pregnant off pre ejaculatory fluid, however I also know that it does not contain sperm unless it picks it up from the urethra, sperm that remains there from a prior ejaculation. He had not ejaculated in 4 days.

Finally, when can I expect an accurate result from a pregnancy test?
What is the best kind of home pregnancy test to take?

If it says that I'm NOT pregnant, should I take a second or third one just to be sure?
If it says that I AM pregnant, should I take a second or third one just to be sure?

I just need some answers, I know that unprotected sex is stupid and irresponsible & I'm planning on never practicing it again now that I understand how scary it is to have to wonder whether I am bearing a child. Frankly, its terrifying. So please, I don't need negative comments concerning my irresponsibility, I already understand that.
Thanks so very much for your help!

Sincerely,
Scared and confused

danielnoahsmommy
Jul 28, 2009, 03:38 PM
Wait until you next period is due. You should then go to your doctor and get birth control.

J_9
Jul 28, 2009, 03:50 PM
How can you have sex with a tampon in? VERY dangerous, if at all possible.

Unfortunately you are in the waiting zone. You have to wait until your next period comes, or doesn't, to find out if you are or are not pregnant.

Pre-ejaculate does indeed contain sperm. People who use the withdrawal method are called parents.