Hey, what's up.. I need help really bad! So I started datin this guy he is so sweet and caring.. I started datin him last month. But we started as friends and then became more.. But this is going to sound bad on my part but he's married but they split up when we were just friends and he moved out of their house and didn't have no where to go so I let him stay with me.Thats when we started noticing the chemistry between us so we started datin and everything was fine till like 4 or 5 dayz ago. When my other friend told me that my boyfriend was at his ex's house at 1 in the morning, so I flipped out about it cause he told me that the only reason he was there is to get dvds... but the question still remains was he telling the truth? Then after that its like he's pushing me away he won't cuddle with me like we use to and we don't talk like we use to... I mean I haven't seen him for a few days... I went to his apartment and asked him if we are still together and he says I don't know, I don't know.. thats all I get and when I type him on myspace asking him if we can talk he comes up with some stupid excuse like I have a lot of running to do and I don't know when I am going to be home... And its so confusing cause I don't know what's going on.. so help what should I do?

~Sincerly~
p.s.

He says he is confused about stuff
*Baby~Gurl*

Sounds like him and his wife are working things out but he is keeping you on the side lines as plan B option if it doesn't work out.

Quit bothering with him. Avoid him. He had time for you when it was to his convince now he is being evasive with you---he is using you.

You said that he was saying with you, then you said his apartment. His apartment as he went back with his wife??

Obviously he is not hard up for a place now so he has no excuse trying to come back in your place and don't let him or you will just be used again.

If he is really serious about you he needs to come back with his signed divorce papers.

It sounds like he used you. You were probably a rebound and now that he's having late night meetings with his ex, he doesn't feel like he wants you anymore. I'm sorry, but you guys just started dating way to soon after his split from his wife. I would suggest breaking it off with him and moving on. Good luck girl!