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kichiku
Jul 23, 2009, 07:17 AM
I have a really nice guy, we have dated for almost 8 months now, in the beginning he used
To call me everyday, but all of a sudden a month ago he is saying he sometimes don't feel in talking mood, and he's blaming me of being nag and think he is up to something, he also think I don't trust him... bcoz I have been asking him what is wrong?

Please assist

tickle
Jul 23, 2009, 08:58 AM
Stop pestering him, if anything is on his mind that he wants you to know, he will probably tell you, seeing as he has been dating you for 8 months. So maybe that's all there is to it, he isn't in a talking mood.

Tick

N0help4u
Jul 23, 2009, 10:00 AM
I agree what is wrong is he is seeing you are insecure because you keep nagging him. Guys like girls that have confidence and don't need to always be asking what is on a guys mind.
Most guys aren't into all that got to talk everyday and all that. They are more about just going and doing no questions.

If you want a guy that calls and talks everyday and into all that maybe you have the wrong boyfriend. There are guys out there that will suit you better.

Gemini54
Jul 23, 2009, 05:16 PM
I agree stop with the nagging - it's the perfect way to get him to ring you even less.

Make the time that you do talk fun and pleasant, make him feel good about you - not defensive - and who knows, he might start calling you a whole lot more.

You might even think about occasionally not being available when he calls!