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jonpalmer
Jul 19, 2009, 10:59 PM
I am 13 and I am being pressured with sex. I am OK with my size I am OK with everything but what I don't know is "how" if you know what I mean I don't know how to exactly plesure a woman/girl can you give me some tips so if it does happen I will be ready?


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BlackVY
Jul 19, 2009, 11:03 PM
Sorry, but I think 13 is way to young. You don't need to know how to please a woman/girl for at least another 5 years, so relax, enjoy a girl's company and stay away from sex for a while.

nikosmom
Jul 19, 2009, 11:11 PM
You are ready when you can support a child. We say it a lot here, but any time you have sex, even with protection, there's always a chance of pregnancy.

You're very young (too young) to be considering sex. When you are ready, you will know it. Until then, just enjoy being 13.

Who's pressuring you? If it's your friends, get some new friends. Pay attention to your gut which is telling you that you're not ready yet.

HelpinHere
Jul 19, 2009, 11:15 PM
Here's how you please a woman: Wait until you are fully grown, and have complete control over your life, for two reasons:
1: you will be sexually mature, physically ready for sex
2: so when you do something stupid, you can help take care of the baby, which won't be for a very long time.

Go read the sticky at the top of the teens board please.

Hot4Scott
Jul 19, 2009, 11:24 PM
I think that there are so many things that you can be doing with your time and honestly sex absolutely should not be one of them.

You are going to have so much time for that stuff when you are older, and who ever is pressuring you to do this is not thinking right .

You don't need to know how to pleasure a woman /girl all that comes in time. Please put your intellegence to work and think about this and anything pertaining to this long and hard , because sex is opening a door that #1 you will never be able to close fully again and #2 that you really probably are not ready to handle.