I'm 15 and I have had this friend for 3 years now and at first he was great we had a lot in common and liked hanggin out. Aafter a year or so he would just find the need to mock my ethnic background and this was weird because he would never have done this before :confused: I would say to my self why do I hang around with someone like this when I have a great caring friend who would never be horrible to me, but this other so called friend the one I was talking about would always find a way to make me forgivve him and worm his way back in to my life I don't no why I keep going back to him when he's a really horrible person, and I don't no why but we meet other friends and they imidiatly like him and don't get along with me he talks down to me like he is better than I am and I try to stay away from him so bad but I just keep going back and being friends with him.. . Please I need help I don't no what to do ne moree

You have to stand your ground. Have a talk with him. Explain why you no longer want to be friends. I have this feeling if he hasn't changed by now, he's not going to. Then, don't answer his calls. Don't call him. Don't Facebook him, email, anything. Go out on your own, meet friends on your own.

Okay here's a thing to you to know.
If someone is your friend treating you like complain to him that you don't like it when people are ethnicing you. Tell him to stop it at once and if he accept it he'll find himself guilty for a while. If he hasn't change his expression then tell him we not friends anymore and try and forget it and move on because aventionally you might find someone why better than him that's cares about you more than anyone else in the world.

Okay here's a thing to you to know.
If someone is your friend treating you like complain to him that you don't like it when people are ethnicing you. Tell him to stop it at once and if he accept it he'll find himself guilty for a while. If he hasn't change his expression then tell him we not friends anymore and try and forget it and move on because aventionally you might find someone why better than him that's cares about you more than anyone else in the world.


This is from 2009, long dead.